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    Ok, for the past couple of months I've been single (I'm also a virgin btw). One thing I definitely miss is the emotion/touching that comes with a relationship, and although I've never had penetrative sex we did do other things. Lately I have been extremely horny to the point that I masturbate almost daily and have a lot of sex dreams. Any tips on how to curb these feelings? If I look at a dude, I pretty much instantaneously cast my eyes to his crouch. It's that serious
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    Yeah just listen to me, I'm in a similar situation, little touching, little emotion, but... I'm in a relationship We've got a crisis and I'm not going to force anything but it's very frustrating, and as I'm not single I couldn't even find myself a **** buddy or a one night stand even if I wanted to. (The latter I wouldn't ever)
    Like, I'm fully committed and I get that sometimes people might need a break but I'm frustrated.
    We can cry together :x



    edit: sorry for the swear filter thingie, didn't know how exactly it worked
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    I understand how you feel. Are you on the poll by any chance?

    Would you be open to a friend with benefits? Because that would help with your situation.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If I look at a dude, I pretty much instantaneously cast my eyes to his crouch. It's that serious
    OMG STOP OBJECTIFYING MEN LIKE THEYRE PEICES OF MEAT OMG CHECK UR PRIVILEGE WE ARENT JUST HERE FOR YOU TO LOOK AT.

    jk, doubt there's anything wrong with you. It sounds obvious but try looking for someone to "fulfil" your needs . Either that or watch porn lol
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    I'm like that all the time don't worry
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    Don't curb it, this is the drive that spurs you on to find a top notch partner.
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    (Original post by A5ko)
    If this wasn't anon, I bet your inbox would be exploding with 'friend' requests.
    :lol:

    OP, it's pretty normal to go through patches like that. Do you have any hobbies etc? If not I'd definitely look into something that will keep you a bit more distracted.
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    You're gonna have to keep flicking those urges away unless you risk your ovaries exploding :sadnod:
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    Thanks for the advice so far. Not really into the whole sex friend thing since I'd much rather give up my v-card while in a relationship. I'll definitely start exploring more hobbies. I would frequent the gym more often but all the testosterone and muscle in the air would only make things worse
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    Oh gosh, you remind me of me when I first lost my virginity. For like the following month I was permanently horny xD

    Yeah, do something to occupy yourself. Maybe you could read more (even bad erotic fanfiction if you wish). Go for a jog on your own, then there won't be muscly men hovering around :P

    Honestly though, it's ok to lose your virginity not in a relationship but that's your choice! Casual sex can be fun though
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    hobby
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    I've been having sex dreams almost every night these days, over these last 2 weeks, which is weird because it's extremely rare that I'd ever dream of sex
    last night I dreamed I got a job at my local university grocery store and they didn't tell me that my first shift was from 9am until midnight - I actually woke up angry that they would hypothetically do that to me - what ****ers
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks for the advice so far. Not really into the whole sex friend thing since I'd much rather give up my v-card while in a relationship. I'll definitely start exploring more hobbies. I would frequent the gym more often but all the testosterone and muscle in the air would only make things worse
    know what yeh mean..yeh if you keep yourself busy over time youll get more used to it.keep doing what youre doing

    after a while you may even find a lad who youll want to lose your v card to.
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    Pretty normal from my experience. I used to live with 3 girls and that was an eye opener.

    Funniest thing though was when one of them bought a guy back then kicked him out 20 minutes later as she wanted to go to the kebab van instead of having sex. Ha!
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    Ditto the advice that's already been given. You may not want to go all the way with someone until you're in a committed relationship, and that's commendable, but surely you should make arrangements to 'have fun' in other ways with someone in your life (ie 'friends with benefits' but without penetrative sex)?
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    Please can we keep the posts sensible, thanks
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    (Original post by SebCross)
    Ditto the advice that's already been given. You may not want to go all the way with someone until you're in a committed relationship, and that's commendable, but surely you should make arrangements to 'have fun' in other ways with someone in your life (ie 'friends with benefits' but without penetrative sex)?
    I would, but all my friends who I'd consider potential sex friends are in uni atm (i'm on a gap year), and it'd be kinda weird calling them out of the blue asking them to do me when we've always had a strictly platonic relationship lol. Also, i'm not attracted to anyone who's in my circle of friends near me and I can't imagine myself specifically setting out to befriend a guy for the sole purpose of becoming sex friends. I think I'll just find something to take up my time until uni comes
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I would, but all my friends who I'd consider potential sex friends are in uni atm (i'm on a gap year), and it'd be kinda weird calling them out of the blue asking them to do me when we've always had a strictly platonic relationship lol. Also, i'm not attracted to anyone who's in my circle of friends near me and I can't imagine myself specifically setting out to befriend a guy for the sole purpose of becoming sex friends. I think I'll just find something to take up my time until uni comes
    Well obviously it comes down to personal boundaries and preferences and stuff but there's nothing wrong with entering into a 'friends with benefits' arrangement with someone, if that has the potential to satisfy you.

    And yeah, a new hobby could be good for you.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Don't curb it, this is the drive that spurs you on to find a top notch partner.
    loool one night stand ftw
 
 
 
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