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    So there is this guy I have been talking to for just over 7 months now. We are really close and he is a great mate of mine. I will admit I have a thing for him. A couple of days ago things got all weird and awkward and he ended up telling me that a couple of weeks ago he was tempted to ask me out. Equally we were talking about kisses and he said he wouldn't mind it if we did it. In his texts I noticed the use of past tense - therefore implying he no longer feels like this. Then about a week ago he tells me about this other girl he has met. He says she talks about kissing and hugging him and all that ****. They Skype and snapchat which is better than what we do. Then last night he tells me he really likes her and thinks she is perfect. I know he doesn't know like him but still. So I guess what I want to know is should I tell him how I feel? Equally I have noticed that he takes longer to reply to my texts. I don't want this new girl to affect our friendship, should I tell him this? I don't know what to do.
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    I know how you feel, I'm sort of in this situation myself. I know its not easy as it sounds but you should tell him how you feel. At least ask him in a friendly or even jokey way why he takes long to answer your messages ( but don't sound so annoying or desperate when asking him).Even if he doesn't feel the same way no more, its better knowing how he feels instead of waiting in the dark. Why don't u Skype him aswell, make him remember the cool person you are that made him want to ask you out before.
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    Lol why does this say it's from 1970, pretty sure tsr, Skype, snapchat or the internet weren't even invented then but oh well, sorry this is over 40 years late but for anyone else: Just tell him you like him you've it nothing to lose
    And for the person asking the question: did it all work out?
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    Loool 1970
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    Yeah, it's a glitch geniuses
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    1970 :rofl: I found it funnier than I should have
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    Sounds like he likes you. I wouldn't be surprised if he had just made up this girl in an attempt to try and make you jealous.


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