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    I used to be, then I realised there is no point. Honestly, girl turned me that way with their mentality.

    For instance look at the thread below, 'I must have a rich boyfriend'.... couldn't care about treating girls with any respect anymore.
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    I find it funny how all the emphasis is on men.
    Are you "nice" enough for a "nice" guy?
    Whatever nice means... :/
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    (Original post by Cremated_Spatula)
    I find it funny how all the emphasis is on men.
    Are you "nice" enough for a "nice" guy?
    Whatever nice means... :/
    Well I'd hope so! I get on with guys and girls but I dunno I guess I find guys easier to get along with.


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    (Original post by riawilkinson)
    Well I'd hope so! I get on with guys and girls but I dunno I guess I find guys easier to get along with.


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    If you get on with plenty guys, what is the problem then? haha
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    (Original post by Cremated_Spatula)
    If you get on with plenty guys, what is the problem then? haha
    Well they're not exactly boyfriend material!

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    (Original post by riawilkinson)
    Well they're not exactly boyfriend material!

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    Do tell, why not?
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    (Original post by AMG44)
    I used to be, then I realised there is no point. Honestly, girl turned me that way with their mentality.

    For instance look at the thread below, 'I must have a rich boyfriend'.... couldn't care about treating girls with any respect anymore.
    Plenty of girls including myself said in that thread how ridiculous it is to expect a boyfriend to be rich and that was not what we expected or wanted at all. You're falling into the same trap as OP who is starting to believe there are no nice guys left, you are falling into the trap of believing there are no fair or respectable women left.
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    (Original post by riawilkinson)
    Well they're not exactly boyfriend material!

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    Why not?
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    (Original post by riawilkinson)
    Well they're not exactly boyfriend material!

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    Please tell me you're not one of those women who uses their male friends as emotional crutches and they end up falling for you and getting completely rejected?
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    I think you're looking for the wrong kind of guy, honey. You might be looking for the 'nice guy' but for some reason are only attracted to guys who are quite the opposite. Maybe you should just try looking in different places, and lowering your standards a little?
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    Nice guys are usually the humble guys... The non attention seeking, non loud, non over confident non jockey guys... Easy to find them... The places where you don't find the attention seeking loud over confident jockey guys... Simples
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    (Original post by riawilkinson)
    I've had a couple of relationships and been on dates with a few guys etc but they all seem to lie/make stuff up/cheat on people. Where are all the 'nice' guys?

    P.s. definitely not on tinder.

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    *Sticks hand up*
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Plenty of girls including myself said in that thread how ridiculous it is to expect a boyfriend to be rich and that was not what we expected or wanted at all. You're falling into the same trap as OP who is starting to believe there are no nice guys left, you are falling into the trap of believing there are no fair or respectable women left.
    Want a rich man, do level 2 hair dressing.

    Anyway that was just an example of many, I wouldn't get too annoyed about it if I was you. I'm sure you can come up with some an aphorism about boys.

    I don't truly believe that, as I know there is respectable woman left it's just the vast majority with inflated egos that have nothing going for them themselves that frustrate me.
    There is a mindset of self-righteous which is a particular bad trait girls have acquired in modern society.
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    (Original post by CatnipGlows)
    I think you're looking for the wrong kind of guy, honey. You might be looking for the 'nice guy' but for some reason are only attracted to guys who are quite the opposite. Maybe you should just try looking in different places, and lowering your standards a little?
    Mmm, this makes sense. Good advice @CatnipGlows
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Plenty of girls including myself said in that thread how ridiculous it is to expect a boyfriend to be rich and that was not what we expected or wanted at all. You're falling into the same trap as OP who is starting to believe there are no nice guys left, you are falling into the trap of believing there are no fair or respectable women left.
    This.

    @SophieSmall: Also, I can't PM you at the moment as a message comes up saying that your Inbox is full...
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    (Original post by ttaylor17)
    Nice guys are usually the humble guys... The non attention seeking, non loud, non over confident non jockey guys... Easy to find them... The places where you don't find the attention seeking loud over confident jockey guys... Simples
    Couldn't agree more.
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    (Original post by SebCross)
    This.

    @SophieSmall: Also, I can't PM you at the moment as a message comes up saying that your Inbox is full...
    thanks for letting me know
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    thanks for letting me know
    No worries. How are you?
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    (Original post by SebCross)
    No worries. How are you?
    Best not to derail the thread
 
 
 
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