Was I Right to be angry?

Basically was meant to go out with a mate (kinda like him) today, and well we arranged to meet at 4 at uni, where I already was, it was 3 and he didn't call or txt, so I called to makesure everything is cool, and then he was like im ill I can't make it today.

I was so mad! cos firstly would he have told me if I didn't ring? This was an hour before we were spose to meet! I wasnt even that bothhered he couldn't come, but just the principle of the matter! :mad:

He txt me then saying he's really sorry and asking if I'm mad, I text back saying I wasn't mad at him cos he couldn't come, but cos he didn't let me know he couldn't make it before hand!

Was I right to be mad? I haven't spoken to him since...

Reply 1

username68316

3

I think you probably were right to be angry. Assuming he wasn't about to phone/text you, which it didnt seem he was going to do

Reply 2

ledge

Err, dunno. On the balance of probabilities, you can probably do better :wink:

Reply 3

dh00001

16

yes, in a way. but if hes really ill he may have been sleeping or something. did you not ask why he hadnt let you know sooner

Reply 4

Mackieee

He’s probably got a pretty valid or personal reason to why he did that but - I understand it’s quite irritating to have someone pull out at last minute, especially with making sure its all ok before.

But give a second chance before you reallyyy get mad, because on the flip side, hes said sorry :wink:

Reply 5

username47781

20

Hmmmm yeah i think your right to be a little angry, perhaps ask to meet up again and if he makes another excuse then he's mucking you around.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

dh00001

yes, in a way. but if hes really ill he may have been sleeping or something. did you not ask why he hadnt let you know sooner

Thx guys, um no I didn't, but how hard isit to send a simple text..he wasn't THAT ill.

Reply 7

ledge

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Thx guys, um no I didn't, but how hard isit to send a simple text..he wasn't THAT ill.

Aha! Now we know your identity :wink:

Yeah he could have been ill, I reckon if he is sound all the rest of the time then cut him slack.

If it's just repeating a pattern then cut the ties... :smile:

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Mackieee

He’s probably got a pretty valid or personal reason to why he did that but - I understand it’s quite irritating to have someone pull out at last minute, especially with making sure its all ok before.

But give a second chance before you reallyyy get mad, because on the flip side, hes said sorry :wink:

Yeh I'll give him a 2nd chance, except I ain't calling him, he can call me and arrange it!

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

ledge

Aha! Now we know your identity :wink:

Yeah he could have been ill, I reckon if he is sound all the rest of the time then cut him slack.

If it's just repeating a pattern then cut the ties... :smile:

That was an accident :redface:

Well this is the first time we arrangd to go out, I just recently met him.

Reply 10

ledge

Anonymous

Yeh I'll give him a 2nd chance, except I ain't calling him, he can call me and arrange it!

Yeah, go with someone else and make him jealous, usually works a treat :smile:

Or just find someone who is worthy of your company. :smile:

Reply 11

high priestess fnord

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Anonymous

Yeh I'll give him a 2nd chance, except I ain't calling him, he can call me and arrange it!

that sounds perfectly reasonable

Reply 12

mr_person

1

Some people are just really disorganised. Go easy on him.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

Yeh I'll give him a 2nd chance, except I ain't calling him, he can call me and arrange it!

very similar thing happened to me recently, but i didnt know the person well enough, so from then on i just ignored the person, who is in my maths course.

Reply 14

FrenchGal

14

Well, at least he answered the phone.

Reply 15

Guffy

Yeah, would've pissed me off too.

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