Help me out plz, theres this girl ive been going out with for 2 weeks, we're both in our first relationship and I wanna be a good boyfriend so any advice is greatly appreciated. thx.
Do what ever she wants without questioning, just don't give an answer to a simple question, as it's probably not that simple in her eyes. Do stuff for her, ask her what she wants to do etc...
> Listen to her > treat her for just being her (but don't be a push over and get taken for granted) > respect her feelings > stand up for her > be considerate > make sure both of you have fun (don't be a bore) - do stuff she likes as well > when getting annoyed with one another, stand back and look at the situation from a third persons view - is it really worth arguing over > don't get too clingy, but don't act like your not bothered > ignore your "cool" mates in potential embarassing situations
you get the jist...
Most importantly - do it your way and go with the flow.
Call her all the time, always do everything with her, be with her every minute of the day and always agree to everything she says. Remember to tell her you love her every ten minutes otherwise she might forget.
Call her all the time, always do everything with her, be with her every minute of the day and always agree to everything she says. Remember to tell her you love her every ten minutes otherwise she might forget.
> Listen to her > treat her for just being her (but don't be a push over and get taken for granted) > respect her feelings > stand up for her > be considerate > make sure both of you have fun (don't be a bore) - do stuff she likes as well > when getting annoyed with one another, stand back and look at the situation from a third persons view - is it really worth arguing over > don't get too clingy, but don't act like your not bothered > ignore your "cool" mates in potential embarassing situations
you get the jist...
Most importantly - do it your way and go with the flow.
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treat her how you want to be treated, only a million times better
In my opinion, in a relationship both partners should be who they are, if they pretend to be someone else then the relationship is based on a lie and this will lead to all kinds of problems. When I met my fiance although I was worried about what she would think of me I was myself because I thought that if she should get to know the real me and not someone who tries to be the perfect boyfriend. At the end of the day we all have our flaws and no-one is perfect so just relax and by yourself. Over time you will find out what your partner likes and dislikes and be able to change how you deal with them.
I know that this is really obvious but I felt that sometimes the blindly obvious is what we need to be told some time.
I don't get why people are so keen to list things that make a "good boyfriend". Surely it's different for everyone, maybe there are general things that the majority of girls like but still, he can't just magically be an amazing partner by doing what we suggest, it's something he needs to figure out for himself and work on gradually, whilst communicating with his partner about her needs and wants also.
I don't get why people are so keen to list things that make a "good boyfriend". Surely it's different for everyone, maybe there are general things that the majority of girls like but still, he can't just magically be an amazing partner by doing what we suggest, it's something he needs to figure out for himself and work on gradually, whilst communicating with his partner about her needs and wants also.
no ones telling him what to do step by step, were still leaving his interpretation of our msges and how he chooses to act upon this up to him. Theres no harm giving someone guidelines or something to aim for, especially if they ask for them.
Help me out plz, theres this girl ive been going out with for 2 weeks, we're both in our first relationship and I wanna be a good boyfriend so any advice is greatly appreciated. thx.
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Be sweet and kind, complement her without being fake, kiss her in elevators, don't force her into doing anything she doesn't want to, laugh with her, make her breakfast in bed, be honest.