This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

This girl..

This girl has started at my college, she use to be good friends with my brother so i did kinda know her before hand. We started chattin at a lunch time and ever since then I have been talking to her all the time. Shes 2years older then me and drop dead gorgeous, shes such a flirt though. Shes in a long term relationship with an older guy.

I can't stop thinking about her, I just don't know what to do! She's always on my mind like 24/7 these past days, its stupid really..i have no chance with her what so ever!

What can I do? :confused:

Thanks!

Reply 1

--

3

Absolutely nothing. Have fun. :smile:

Reply 2

Guffy

Ask someone else out.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Yea i thought about that, but when ever I think of another girl, straight away everything fixes back onto her :confused:

Reply 4

Guffy

I didn't say think about asking another girl out, I said actually do it.

Reply 5

Zerforax

21

seems a bit wrong to use another girl just to get her out of his mind :p:

Reply 6

Historiana

14

I suggest you wait until she's finsihed with this guy then tell her how you feel - it will mean you won't get hounded by her boyfriend and she'll respect you for waiting as to not ruin her relationship.

Try to build up a friendship if you can...

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Exactly, no girls are anywhere near this girl though, she seems to be perfect, it's making me depressed :redface:

Reply 8

Guffy

Choccielatte

I suggest you wait until she's finsihed with this guy then tell her how you feel - it will mean you won't get hounded by her boyfriend and she'll respect you for waiting as to not ruin her relationship.

Try to build up a friendship if you can...

You want him to wait around indefinitely for a girl who may be with her boyfriend for the rest of her life?

Yeah, fantastic advice. :rolleyes:

Reply 9

--

3

Choccielatte

I suggest you wait until she's finsihed with this guy then tell her how you feel - it will mean you won't get hounded by her boyfriend and she'll respect you for waiting as to not ruin her relationship.

Try to build up a friendship if you can...

Right, and waste the rest of his life waiting for someone to break up with their boyfriend? And then what if she turns round and rejects him? Thats not exactly good advice, he should just get over her by getting under someone else.

Reply 10

username47781

20

Choccielatte

I suggest you wait until she's finsihed with this guy then tell her how you feel - it will mean you won't get hounded by her boyfriend and she'll respect you for waiting as to not ruin her relationship.

Try to build up a friendship if you can...

She may not break up with him, she may just think it's a big thrill flirting behind his back, i would not even attempt to get with her.

Reply 11

Historiana

14

Thats a terrible thing to do! You can't use other girls - it's not right and it certainly wouldn't help!

Reply 12

General Mullet

It isn't using someone else, it's finding another person to like otherwise he'll just obsess over this girl who isn't going to dump her boyfriend to go out with someone younger than herself.

Reply 13

mr_person

1

Meh. Girls sometimes do this, just flirt back but don't let it stop you hooking up with someone else.

Reply 14

G4ry

1

What makes you think she's flirting?

Reply 15

JKing84

Go out and find some others girls to take your mind off this one. Hopefully your spend more time thinking about them that your forget about this unattainable girl.

Reply 16

Vampyrcorn

14

masturbate?

Reply 17

edu

2

Vampyrcorn

masturbate?

over ANOTHER girl.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

G4ry

What makes you think she's flirting?

Well she tells me all the time that she thinks i'm hottest boy in the 6thform,cute etc and if she was single she would want to get with me in the non relationship way.

I'm confused if she actually means it though :confused:

Reply 19

edu

2

just say sex please.

This girl..

Related discussions

Articles for you