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Girls texting first and interest watch

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    Should you put the effort in to talk to someone if you are always initiating the texting conversation? It seems like you're bothering them? Anyone else feel this way? Do girls always want the boy to text first even if they're just friends? Or do they only text boys first if they're interested in him? It's confusing like she never initiates text conversation. However, once I do initiate she seems interested in the conversation and asks questions etc or am I just mistaking interest for friendliness?


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    Depends. But usually we like it when guy text first . I only text the guy first when I know him well enough (as a friend)


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    You only need to text to arrange a meeting. You'll learn much more about the other person through face to face communication than just text messages
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    Text first = friend zone
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    If we're friends, I'm not really thinking about who's texting who first. If we're more than just friends then I'll try not to initiate conversation every time.
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    If we're just friends, I don't think it really matters.
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    I wouldn't say it's so black and white every time. I think it's different for each girl tbh. There was this girl who was always texting me first and I found out later that she wanted my d really bad (I sound like such a **** but I'm a rly nice guy) I put it like this cuz that's literally what she wanted instead of wanting to date me.
 
 
 
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