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    He doesn't deserve you.

    The only way to get over a guy is to get under another.
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    (Original post by Carl1982)
    Oh god is that what he said, sorry but he is a heartless b*stard for accusing you of making that up, you don't need that idiot, he is uncaring and selfish.
    Unfortunately, and I'm definitely not saying this is the case here, there are women who do that. Maybe he's read something about this happening and it made him think this is what pumpkin was doing.
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    *cough* insert expletive here *cough*. Please girl why are you torturing yourself over this? He should be torturing himself over how hes treated you! Ive broken up with a girl once in a really horrible manner, I started ignoring her more and more and didnt talk to her and then broke up. I told her the truth about it a week or two after but that doesnt change how I did it. I still feel guilty about it now and that was 2 years ago.... Id have beaten me up to be honest :\
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    (Original post by Creepy)
    He doesn't deserve you.

    The only way to get over a guy is to get under another.
    That's helpful.
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    (Original post by pumpkin7)
    this has reminded me why i don't like relationships!
    blah.. anyway background; boyfriend for 2 years. we get on so well, have so much in common. 1st september we went to spain for a week together, and we were both dreading him going to uni because we knew that we would miss each other a lot and wouldn't be able to see each other too much. the good thing is that he has gone to a uni close to where we live anyway, so i could see him more regularly than if he moved away.
    the night before he started uni, i got him a load of stationary and food to take with him and he was so very upset at going, and started being quite emotional and kept telling me how much he needed me and was glad that he had me.
    during 'freshers' week, he wanted me to stay with him at the uni, so i did. i stayed over on the first 4 nights because he wanted me to, and took him out when everyone else went drinking and clubbing.
    anyway, the one day, totally out of the blue, he says 'oh, i want a break because you are too jealous and have been around too much'. i don't see how he can say i've been around too much when he was the one who wanted me to stay in the first place. the jealousy thing, yeah ok, there are a lot of pretty girls on his corridor so what am i supposed to do? i think i have the right to be a little jealous..
    anyway, i didn't want a break. we had to have one before because he wanted to spend time with me and then got sick of me.. he did that to me over christmas and it was the worst christmas ever. so, instead of saying 'ok, we will jsut see each other less' he decides he wants to break up for good.

    i don't know whether uni has totally changed him in, what, 3 weeks, but i'm struggling to understand the logic behind this seen as we were so close when he started uni, and now he doesn't want to know me. oh, he does want to be friends though because i'm 'a nice person'.

    has anyone got any views or had something similar happen? i love my boyfriend dearly and we swore that we would get through uni because i thought and i'm guessing he thought we were in love.. but this sucks.
    Awww *hugs* :hugs: . I know how you feel. Broke up with my gf of a year in July (her fault, long story). I did love her a lot (and I suppose I still do to an extent) but when they say "maybe in the future" they dont mean it. Best of taking your mind of the matter. Go out with friends. Just remember that this isnt your fault. Dont beat yourself up over it.

    He must be a bit crazy though. Breaks up with a very attractive girl who buys half his uni stuff for him and has been with for two years...I mean wtf? .
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    (Original post by Creepy)
    The only way to get over a guy is to get under another.
    dont be an ass
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    (Original post by pumpkin7)
    he said that he had been thinking it for a while, which is absolute bull ****. i know this because i know how happy we were in the many months before, and when we went on holiday.

    i mean, does this look like a couple who would break up in a month?

    http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y14...andclare01.jpg

    http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y14...0/PIC_0058.jpg

    http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y14...0/IMG_0122.jpg

    i mean, no. he isn't like that, and i know he wouldn't lie to me.
    You are really pretty :hugs: he is an idiot to just throw what you two had away like that then start treating you the way he has especially without an explanation.

    Ask him if you can go and see him sometime this week and talk about it? Maybe then he will give you a reason?
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    I get the impression he wants a bit of 'fun' at Uni
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    Maybe your little brother used to bully his little brother and this is his act of revenge.
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    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
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    that story is quite random though, you could be forgiven to thinking someone made it up.

    anyway i think youll be fine, youre pretty hot, you could get a new guy. he doesnt look like he has a chin in the first pic.
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    (Original post by [email protected])
    That's helpful.
    (Original post by edu)
    dont be an ass
    I do apologise for trying to add a bit of humour to this girls problem's when she's feeling quite down. I know when i'm feeling down the last thing i want is for someone to cheer me up.

    Not.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
    You are going to uni if you can though right?
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    (Original post by Creepy)
    I do apologise for trying to add a bit of humour to this girls problem's when she's feeling quite down. I know when i'm feeling down the last thing i want is for someone to cheer me up.

    Not.
    No, I'm being sincere, that is helpful. Humour is helpful as you said.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
    Such trust. I was the one that went to uni and I wasnt the one that changed...doesnt always work does it? .
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
    It can work, as long as you both put the effort in. It's when one of you doesn't that things go bad.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
    He's right, you should go anyway.
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    (Original post by [email protected])
    You are going to uni if you can though right?
    Yes I am going to go
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    (Original post by Josiette)
    You are really pretty :hugs: he is an idiot to just throw what you two had away like that then start treating you the way he has especially without an explanation.

    Ask him if you can go and see him sometime this week and talk about it? Maybe then he will give you a reason?
    thanks lol..

    mm, i've already tried talking to him and he can't give me a reason other than i was clingy, jealous and immature.

    he also said that he doesn't miss me, he doesn't think about me (eventhough he text me at 1am the other morning... wtf?) and doesn't love me at all any more...
    also, he just randomly started talking to my friend about me.. uh huh.. not thinking about me. apparently i have always been the same too, eventhough we've been together for 2 years.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend doesn't want me to go to uni because he doesn't think I will come back I suppose this proves that no matter how much you are in love you change a lot at university
    He doesnt frikin own you >.>
 
 
 
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