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If a girl is average or above, does this mean that she will have tons of men approaching her and endless 'back up' guys if she already has a boyfriend like everyone on tsr seems to think? I've always thought I was average but then I've never been approached by a guy so maybe I'm below average?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If a girl is average or above, does this mean that she will have tons of men approaching her and endless 'back up' guys if she already has a boyfriend like everyone on tsr seems to think? I've always thought I was average but then I've never been approached by a guy so maybe I'm below average?
I suppose it also depends on spending enough time in places where these "approaches" are common and socially acceptable. For example, maybe if you frequent bars, clubs, pubs, dating websites, parties etc. then you're more likely to be approached than if you're just filling up your car at a petrol station or something.
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You're not the girl from the other day who's like 23 or something and never been approached in her life, are you?
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Show pic then we can decide
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You're not the girl from the other day who's like 23 or something and never been approached in her life, are you?
And she boasts she does a PhD in physics at Imperial. If anything we should leave her to focus on that
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If a girl is average or above, does this mean that she will have tons of men approaching her and endless 'back up' guys if she already has a boyfriend like everyone on tsr seems to think? I've always thought I was average but then I've never been approached by a guy so maybe I'm below average?
No, you need to be well above average to be in the category you are describing.
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(Original post by Stefano93)
You're not the girl from the other day who's like 23 or something and never been approached in her life, are you?
Nope I'm 17

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(Original post by tazarooni89)
I suppose it also depends on spending enough time in places where these "approaches" are common and socially acceptable. For example, maybe if you frequent bars, clubs, pubs, dating websites, parties etc. then you're more likely to be approached than if you're just filling up your car at a petrol station or something.
Ah okay this makes sense, thanks

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No, you need to be well above average to be in the category you are describing.
That's what I thought but I started to get doubtful since so many guys on TSR claim that's how easy it is for most girls and anyone else must be unattractive but I guess they're just bitter. :dontknow:
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No, you need to be well above average to be in the category you are describing.
Not really, there are plenty of desperate average (or lower) looking guys...
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Not really, there are plenty of desperate average (or lower) looking guys...
Yep, but they're still striving with girls out of their league. To have a queue at your door you need to be very attractive and everyone else has to work a bit.
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No its not, there's plenty of girls who never put themselves in situations to be approached or have not be considered approachable for x reason
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Depends lol, I have v v pretty friends but the majority of guys find them too intimidating to approach
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(Original post by Zarek)
Yep, but they're still striving with girls out of their league. To have a queue at your door you need to be very attractive and everyone else has to work a bit.
If you compared the queue of men lining up for an attractive girl with an average looking one, there would be a massive difference, sure.

But you'd have to have some issues of your own if you had no interest at all from any guys.

Like living on a tiny island with a population of about 30 people lol.
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I don't get approached in person randomly either (apart from an anomaly on Sunday, only happened because I was at a pub), don't worry about it, I think it's perfectly normal :dontknow:
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If a girl is average or above, does this mean that she will have tons of men approaching her and endless 'back up' guys if she already has a boyfriend like everyone on tsr seems to think? I've always thought I was average but then I've never been approached by a guy so maybe I'm below average?
I'm exactly like you.
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It is just BANTER
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I'd say it's more standard than men getting approached haha
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(Original post by TheTipsyTarsier)
I don't get approached in person randomly either (apart from an anomaly on Sunday, only happened because I was at a pub), don't worry about it, I think it's perfectly normal :dontknow:
Yeah I thought it was, shouldn't have let TSR influence me
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I'm exactly like you.
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It doesn't really bother me, actually.
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