Letting go

Its been almost 6 months now, and I still havn't gotten over the breakup with my ex girlfriend. Its really rather pathetic, I don't think there's been a day when I havn't thought about her in one context or another. Strange thing is, it was me who broke things off (long story :s). If I'm watching TV, then I would be thinking "hmm, ******* would enjoy this" or having a meal "hmm, ******* would love this". I always worry about what shes doing, how many guys she's been with since me, what she's getting up to. I honestly don't want to feel like this any longer, its really holding my social life back and affecting my studies.

Are there any ways in which I can just get her out of my mind? How can I just let her go? It seems really really OTT, but I seriously cannot stop thinking about her. Now that I'm back at Uni, I see her everyday and its not like I can totally remove myself from her presence. I've tried the whole get new hobbies/ going out getting wasted thing, and it doesn't work.

Reply 1

pumpkin7

13

call her and take her back. you love her really.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

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pumpkin7

call her and take her back. you love her really.

Haha. I wish it was this simple, I really do. As far as I can gather, she's no longer interested :frown:

Basically breakup was my fault, I was a complete and utter d***head. She doesn't buy into the "forgive and forget" mentality, and who can blame her really.

Reply 3

embrassezmoi

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Reply 4

andy_cole2

14

you got to talk to some people just keep telling random people the story and then one person will tell you one thing and suddenly you'l be over it. you won't konw what the thign is till they say it but they'l say somethign and suddenly it will click that it doesn't matter to you any more. or thats my advice anyway :p:

Reply 5

dita_parlo

11

Yea, it's been six months since things ended between me and the ex. I still think of him everyday and (as sad as it sounds) cry about him every night. Uhm, I guess we just have to stick it out, keep going out with mates, try to keep busy with uni and stuff and *hopefully* eventually one day it won't hurt as much.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

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dita_parlo

Yea, it's been six months since things ended between me and the ex. I still think of him everyday and (as sad as it sounds) cry about him every night. Uhm, I guess we just have to stick it out, keep going out with mates, try to keep busy with uni and stuff and *hopefully* eventually one day it won't hurt as much.

I feel your pain. I just want this to be over, I think I've accepted that its never going to happen yet I still cant get her out of my mind.

Reply 7

Azzle

1

same as me and my ex. we've still been sleeping together, but not for quite a while now. like, 5 weeks anyway. he's been out with someone else, but we kinda got back together after that. but it doesn't work. an ex is an ex for a reason. on friday i deleted all his texts, my texts to him and his number. drastic, i never thought id be able to do it, but it has helped me stop textin him all the time!

Letting go

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