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Hi there,

I met a girl at a party at the end of Christmas, and we hit off. However we both go to different Universities however we live quite near each other, so we won't be able to meet up for a while. Is there any tips on how to keep her intreseted via text until we both get time to meet up?

Thanks in advance! x
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(Original post by Jean Luc Picard)
Hi there,

I met a girl at a party at the end of Christmas, and we hit off. However we both go to different Universities however we live quite near each other, so we won't be able to meet up for a while. Is there any tips on how to keep her intreseted via text until we both get time to meet up?

Thanks in advance! x
What will be will be. Just be yourself, text her when you want to and offer to meet up sometime perhaps. Don't take it to heart if nothing develops straight away- you obviously both have uni to consider too.
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Play cool, text minimally, leave her waiting a bit., arrange to meet up ASAP as relying on texts too long will heavily diminish your chances.
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What will be will be. Just be yourself, text her when you want to and offer to meet up sometime perhaps. Don't take it to heart if nothing develops straight away- you obviously both have uni to consider too.
Okay! We've been texting constantly for a few days, however she's reduced that now. Do you think she's losing intreset or she's just trying to play cool. I know it's difficult to answer but any advice would be welcome!
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Okay! We've been texting constantly for a few days, however she's reduced that now. Do you think she's losing intreset or she's just trying to play cool. I know it's difficult to answer but any advice would be welcome!
That's difficult for me to judge because I don't know her and how she behaves. But honestly- don't look in to it. As you said, you're both at uni so she's probably working, it doesn't mean her texting behaviour indicates she's not interested. Just go with the flow, and see what happens!
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Arrange to meet up ASAP. Don't play into her text game. She's probably texting loads of guys. Maybe I'm not the best person to give advice? I hate text. I hate the games girls play via text. The type who have their phone with them 24/7 but take years to give you a reply just to piss you about. I don't give women my Facebook either. I prefer calls. You get an answer straight away.

Never look into things and think too much. If she doesn't text back in decent time don't bother putting too much energy into her because she's probably not interested and you're one of the many guys on the side.


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That's difficult for me to judge because I don't know her and how she behaves. But honestly- don't look in to it. As you said, you're both at uni so she's probably working, it doesn't mean her texting behaviour indicates she's not interested. Just go with the flow, and see what happens!
I think I might text her saying if she's back home during a weekend or reading week that we could meet up then and leave it for a while; to try and gauge her reaction. But as you said 'going with the flow' is the best option!
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Okay! We've been texting constantly for a few days, however she's reduced that now. Do you think she's losing intreset or she's just trying to play cool. I know it's difficult to answer but any advice would be welcome!
She may not want to come across as clingy by constantly texting.
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Maybe as a last resort!
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Maybe as a last resort!
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Slightly too kinky for so early on. I might stick to normal texting for now! But thank you!
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Slightly too kinky for so early on, however, you never know it might work! :confused:
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Hi there,

I met a girl at a party at the end of Christmas, and we hit off. However we both go to different Universities however we live quite near each other, so we won't be able to meet up for a while. Is there any tips on how to keep her intreseted via text until we both get time to meet up?

Thanks in advance! x
Hi jean.

Firstly don't listen to the women giving you advice, they have no experince in dating heterosexual women as a young man.
Jean when texting girls you should be
A) texting to build comfort in order for them to want to meet
B) Arranging the logistics of meeting up
thats it, keep your texts short and concise, text less then her, ideally text 2/3rds as much as she texts you.

Best of luck
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Hi jean.

Firstly don't listen to the women giving you advice, they have no experince in dating heterosexual women as a young man.
Jean when texting girls you should be
A) texting to build comfort in order for them to want to meet
B) Arranging the logistics of meeting up
thats it, keep your texts short and concise, text less then her, ideally text 2/3rds as much as she texts you.

Best of luck
Thanks Shoope! The intresets is there, I think it's the logistics of meeting up which is the main stumbling block at the moment, and I'm unsure on how to get around it!
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I can't be arsed to text constantly. It can run out of steam too quickly and it's too hard to maintain.
I prefer purposeful texts. Texts to meet up and perhaps a couple of texts a day is absolutely fine.
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Seems like she does like you but you haven't exactly swept her of her feet, so don't over text her, she might be busy with studies and get annoyed, but also don't ignore her, text her from time to time, maybe once or twice every other day.

If you really like each other then thats a different ball game, I remember meeting a girl at a similar party and we hit it off, we would text profusely and be on the phone for hours talking, fell asleep couple of times while still on the phone with her because we would chat to 3-4am.
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Play cool, text minimally, leave her waiting a bit., arrange to meet up ASAP as relying on texts too long will heavily diminish your chances.
This. Texting should only be used to bring you closer to meeting. If you natter too much you'll spoil the mystery or mess up somewhere.

Give a guy too much rope and he'll hang himself.
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