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Worth fighting for or shall i move on?

Here is a really long story cut short.

Well there is this girl that was my first love and she broke up with me to go back to her ex. Her ex then dumped her 3 months later and now this girl is single. She came to me when she broke up with him for support but now she isn't crying over him no more she has cut all contact and i only see her once a week for an hour in lecture if she bothers to turn up. I still love this girl and know i can make it work but for some stupid reason my ex believes i was to blame for her break up with her ex because she never takes any responsibility for anything bad that happens. I'm now in a situation where i could probably live without her, it took since late June to get over her and last week i was really depressed. I have lecture with this girl in 1 hours time so shall i talk to her face to face to see if i can get her back? The problem is, like a typical heart broken ex i texted her loads last week when she said she doesn't want to be with me no more and phoned her and she never picked up. I know some people are gonna say "she don't want u know more so move on" but we went through a hell of a lot and the only reason she don't want to meet up with me is because she thinks she'll end up kissing me. If i got her back i know i'll make it work and i'm 90% sure the only reason she isn't getting back with me is because all her friends are against her going out with me & their reasons are complete bull****. What shall i do? I think i'm gonna get hurt if she rejects me again and if i don't go for it i'm gonna regret it tomorow because the longer i take the less chance i have... what a crap position, if she would meet me rather than me going up to her in lecture infront of her mates it would of been sorted :confused:

Reply 1

Wow, this is a clear cut case of it being a REALLY bad idea.

Do yourself a favour and move on, honestly.

Reply 2

Sometimes you just gotta bite the bullet.

Reply 3

I say it's not a good idea, ignore her, she sounds a very confused girl.

Reply 4

Move on, she didn't appreciate you first time round - why be second best.

Reply 5

Take a hint! She doesnt want to see you, she's ignoring your calls and texts-move on and find someone who cares!!!

Reply 6

sophierw
Take a hint! She doesnt want to see you, she's ignoring your calls and texts-move on and find someone who cares!!!


Not so easy when we went through so much... she does care but doesn't want to get together.

Everyone was right though, i saw her today and decided not to do anything but mutual friend dragged us both together n she shouted "why did u call me a million times" n everyone looked! Defo not worth it, only called her 3 times to say happy diwali :s, i guess some people can just move on just like that and are heartless! Oh well, monday night piss up is coming my way!

thanks for the advice everyone, if i didn't get pissed off and stayed and spoke to her on the way back it would of sorted it self out but i just can't be with someone who is that b1tchy.