My doctor prescribed Citalopram for hot flushes. Worked well but the only side effect I had was urinary stress incontinence which I wasn't prepared to live with. I am now, a few years later, suffering depression and am seeing my GP today but am terrified of being given an antidepressant that makes my hair thin (list it all when I had cancer so quite keen to keep it all now), makes me nauseous or piles on the weight. Currently taking Gabapentin for hot flushes and peripheral neuropathy (which was actually caused by statinsPrescribed, so they're in the bin now) but want to stop taking it. Any help gratefully received.