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Justin Timberlake! Plus potential problem with cousin

OK, to set the scene, both my (female) cousin and I are massive JT fans! :suith:

Anyway, basically a couple of my mates and I (also guys, also big fans) are planning on getting tickets to the European leg of his Futuresex tour, and I know my cousin would absolutely love to go, and she'd probably be quite upset with me if she found out I went and didn't ask her, knowing how much she loves JT, and how much we've listened to his tunes together.

Now, normally I would be more than happy for her to come to a concert with me, but we're going to see JT, and there's going to be legions of gorgeous young horny girls, and to be honest, both my mates and I will be looking to pick a few up and probably go out clubbing with them. Having a girl along with us will cramp our style.

What do you think we should do? I really don't think her coming with us is that much of an option, and I know my buddies would be severely unhappy with that. Equally, I really don't want to be in the dog house with her, which I kind of know I would be if I didn't invite her.

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Reply 1

Anonymous #1

You're unadmittedly gay right?

Reply 2

Guffy

Anonymous

You're unadmittedly gay right?

Guffy

there's going to be legions of gorgeous young horny girls, and to be honest, both my mates and I will be looking to pick a few up

You fail at reading.

Reply 3

oblivious

Anonymous

You're unadmittedly gay right?

says the person without the balls to say that without using anonymous

Reply 4

dh00001

ask her but explain youre hoping to go after blah blah blah. make it so she doesnt want to go with you but at least youve asked.
but if she does go i doubt itd really be that bad.

Reply 5

M j R

You could tell it to her like it is...say my mates are getting tickets to see JT and asked if "I" (you) wanted to go, you said yes. Say I'd offer to go with you but my mates are intending to score!

Reply 6

person 34

lols

Reply 7

Guffy

I'm not too keen on lying to her, we've always been really honest with each other, but I guess it's probably the best option, right?

It just feels a bit low.

Reply 8

ciderpeter

I find it more disturbing if he isn't gay that he is looking to pick up girls at a concert which will undoubtedly be predominantly, pre-pubescent school girls with their parents :eek:

Reply 9

Guffy

ciderpeter

I find it more disturbing if he isn't gay that he is looking to pick up girls at a concert which will undoubtedly be predominantly, pre-pubescent school girls with their parents :eek:

I would imagine a large percentage, if not majority, of Justin Timberlake fans will be young adult women.

Those are certainly the ones we will be interested in, at any rate.

Reply 10

evil groove

Hi Guffy. I'd be honest with her, I'm sure she'll understand.

Really though, I think the real reason you're considering lying to her is that you are embarrassed to tell her your real intentions at the concert. :p:

Reply 11

Guffy

Schokis

Really though, I think the real reason you're considering lying to her is that you are embarrassed to tell her your real intentions at the concert. :p:

God no. She knows what I'm like.

Which is not to say I'm any sort of womaniser, but my point is that she knows I have a healthy sexual appetite.

Reply 12

dh00001

tell her thats why youre going and thats why you dont think she willl want to come with you.

Reply 13

Psyk

If your friends are going to pick up young horny girls then they'll probably appreciate you bringing one along with you. :p:

Reply 14

edu

tell her the truth :\

Reply 15

Tennessee

Yeah i mean if your always honest with her and she knows what your like, just invite her but say that you and your mates wil be wanting some action etc and you wouldn't really want her, nor would she want herself, to be just standing there whilst you and your mates snog all these girls when she's standing there just watching lol She'll get it. She might still want to go, but she might agree to keep outta your way, maybe she could get a mate of her own to come along so she could have someone with her! There are all kinds of solutions...but just be honest, it's better than her thinking you did it behind her back because you didnt want her to come.

Reply 16

Guffy

Tennessee

just invite her but say that you and your mates wil be wanting some action etc and you wouldn't really want her, nor would she want herself, to be just standing there whilst you and your mates snog all these girls when she's standing there just watching

Erm, I kind of think you're missing the point.

If all we were planning to do is stand around snogging girls and then go home, she would be welcome to come.

We're planning on pulling a few of them, then (hopefully) going out clubbing with them and finishing the evening by having sexual intercourse with them.

Reply 17

ciderpeter

I hope you catch some repulsive STD and your penis falls off...

But seriously though, its clear you have no respect for women, so why do you feel the need to lay your cousin down lightly? :confused:

Reply 18

Guffy

ciderpeter

I hope you catch some repulsive STD and your penis falls off...

But seriously though, its clear you have no respect for women, so why do you feel the need to lay your cousin down lightly? :confused:

I have a lot of respect for women, actually. I wouldn't lie to a woman or mislead her into sex. I've only ever been honest with women.

I don't see how having a bit of casual fun shows any disrespect? Women aren't sacred objects, they're people too. They don't need protecting or putting on a pedestal. To respect a woman, you treat them like a human being. Women like sex too, and there's nothing wrong with two consenting adults getting it on, as long as they both know the score. And as I said, I do respect women, which is why I wouldn't lie about what I was after on that particular occasion.

As for why I would let my cousin down lightly... ummmmm, maybe because she's my cousin and friend and I love her?

Reply 19

ciderpeter

Oh sorry, my mistake, I clearly misunderstood the respect you have for girls when your going to a Justin Timberlake concert with the intent of getting a shag i think... *scratches head*

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