a boy

(another silly boy thread, dont read if u dont want)

so there's this boy... I used to know him a few years ago through a friend and I would see him every now and again adn we would chat and stuff and I fancied him a little bit.
But I sort of stopped hanging out with the girl who I met him through as I have a lot of different social circles, and sort of just started hanging with other people instead. So basically forgot about him.
But for, well it must be a quite a long time now, since I turned 18 and have been going to clubs etc. I have started seeing him about again. But the first time I saw him I was too shy to actually say anything to acknowledge I remembered him. I know he saw me to cos he sort of gave me that look like he knew who I was and was gunna come over or something but I think I looked away or something I just didnt say anything. Now I keep seeing him around and really do want to say hi, cos I do still fancy him a bit and know for a fact that he is single and isnt at uni like most of the people I know are. But I've sort of left it too long now, like it would have had to have been that first time or never... I think...
If I did say anything to him, I wouldnt know what to say, and I couldnt just pretend that I havent been seeing him around at least once or twice a week for a few months becuase he has definitely seen me. and if I said I was too scared to say hi that would sound lame.

I also just found his myspace and don't know weather or not to add him.
ahhhh just think I needed to let all that out, I know theres not really any chance for me with someone who I don't know. But I just keep on thinking of the times when we used to hang out and he was really nice and stuff. Maybe I'm just lonely cos im on a gap year and not many people are around to keep me company.

blahhh

Reply 1

Guffy

Just say hello to him when you're out. He's probably not going to bite.

Reply 2

Tennessee

definitely add him/message him on myspace you could say 'is it you that i've seen around a lot? i wasn't sure blahblah etc etc' because then that gives you the fresh opportunity to approach him the next time you see him, if he replies :smile:

and you two could begin to talk a little on there again.

Reply 3

ciderpeter

Guffy

Just say hello to him when you're out. sHe's probably not going to bite.

We can live in hope that this isn't the case when you visit your JT concert yep?

Reply 4

Guffy

ciderpeter

We can live in hope that this isn't the case when you visit your JT concert yep?

What are you talking about, and why are you talking about it instead of drinking bleach?

Reply 5

Ywiss

Guffy

What are you talking about, and why are you talking about it instead of drinking bleach?

Nice one.

Reply 6

sophierw

Girl needs help with guy, and youre talking about drinking bleach. Hmm....

Reply 7

ciderpeter

Ywiss

Nice one.

Haha you two make a good pair...

Ywiss, you should buy tickets for a Justin Timberlake concert and meet Guffy, I am sure you would both bend over backwards to help each other out.... literally!

Reply 8

Ywiss

ciderpeter

Haha you two make a good pair...

Ywiss, you should buy tickets for a Justin Timberlake concert and meet Guffy, I am sure you would both bend over backwards to help each other out.... literally!