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Sex, After how many dates?

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Anonymous

Since when was edu ever macho?

Since he got teased for calling a girl 'cute' when she was talking about emotional involvement with sex. And only then to defend himself.

edu

And no i dont go anon :\... **** that **** so what if im emotional, leave me alone

I didn't say anything!! Your emotions are fine!!

Reply 21

edu

Eugh... *thinks of how to diffuse the situation.. since swearing wont work as he keeps getting ****ing censored*

lets get back to the topic at hand?

Reply 22

maag101

What was the topic at hand?

Reply 23

mr_person

What was the topic at hand?

How many dates must a man go on before he can get himself laid?

Aaah, Bob Dylan's alternative lyrics...

Reply 24

maag101

Oh I see. (lol for the lyrics btw).

4... no. 5. No. 10. No, I don't know. Next!

Reply 25

edu

you cant plan relationships man its all about feeling and emotion. And theres nothing wrong with feeling emotion >.>!

Reply 26

rugdollap

You can have sex and then go out on dates. Relationships begins from the bed.

Reply 27

maag101

^ Is that a twist on 'charity begins in the home'??

Reply 28

Schroedinger's Pandora

I made my boyfriend wait 5 months. Bless him.

Reply 29

silverbolt

little_red_sox

I made my boyfriend wait 5 months. Bless him.

you tease

me and my gf waited about one week but it depends on the people involved, some like to get sex out of the way quickly to save on the awkwardness

Reply 30

Guffy

Whenever it feels right. I don't think 3 dates is too soon in a lot of cases, but it could be with some people.

Only you know.

Reply 31

Mackieee

Me and my ex decided after 4 months it felt right, when both parties felt right for it.

Reply 32

MagicNMedicine

I am in favour of getting it on sooner rather than later, one time a girl started ignoring my texts/calls after about 5 weeks of seeing her...later on she told me that it was because we hadn't slept together she said she was a very sexual person and thought I obviously wasn't....my offers to put her right in this matter have not yet been taken up

Reply 33

Anonymous #3

This is why so many relationships fail as people have sex soon as possible then realise it was just a lust thing and they have little in common.

Reply 34

Guffy

Anonymous

This is why so many relationships fail as people have sex soon as possible then realise it was just a lust thing and they have little in common.

Those relationships are going to fail anyway, may as well get some sex out of it.

Reply 35

clueless101

It depends on the couple. Maybe after a few more dates, you could discuss it and see what her feelings are on the subject. Me personally, I waited 5-6 months with my then-boyfriend, because i like the feeling of mutual emotion and attachment. :smile:

But yeh, its probably a bit too early now, just wait and see how things go?

Reply 36

high priestess fnord

i have said it beofre and i will say it again, allways stick to the third date rule!

allways have sex before the end of the third date. then if shes bad in bed you can dump her before you become too emotionally involved.

Reply 37

foxiroxi

I kissed my boyfriend the time we first met up together, the following time we met up he asked me out.

We slept together after 2 months which is when it felt right to do so.

I was with a boyfriend for over a year and I never slept with him, althoguh being 16 and legal I never felt ready and it never seemed right.

Just see how things go, talk to your gf :smile:

Reply 38

Princess_Peach

I had sex after 2 weeks of dating my boyfriend. I'm 24 and I've had sex with 2 people so far in my life. When I'm insanely attracted to someone, I say, why wait?