EX keeps contacting me

He keeps texting me and phoning me. Yesterday he rang me saying he had been drugged and ended up in hospital after coming out of a night club. I sent him a message asking him to stop messaging me. He didn't reply and that's been it.

Why is he telling me this and why is he wanting to keep in touch?

Secondly, I am going home from uni in a few days and plan going clubbing at home too. He said he will probably be going the same place too and he won't go with anyone.

What the hell is he playing at now?

Reply 1

Dragon24

I had this problem with my ex, he would ask how I was - I would reply asking how he was which he didn't reply. So I sent him an earful, the next few times he text I didn't reply and haven't heard anything after a year - thank god. Nasty piece of work he was.

Best thing is just ignore him, go to the club with a group of people so your not alone with him and if the worst comes to the worse change your number. Amazing how nice these people are in a relationship then get nasty when it ends.

Reply 2

nmt_oli

Anonymous

Yesterday he rang me saying he had been drugged and ended up in hospital after coming out of a night club.

Why is he telling me this and why is he wanting to keep in touch?

More info needed, how did your relationship end, was it a bad break up? did you remain friends? (i presume not by your atitude).

It may be that he still sees you as a friend, and at that tiime told you this as he trusts you and wanted someone to be there for him. If my ex rang me and said she had been drugged and was in hospital i owuld go see her ASAP, but were really good friends still.

It is possible to be a friend with an ex.

Anonymous

I sent him a message asking him to stop messaging me. He didn't reply and that's been it.

You asked him to stop talkign to you, he has net replied, so has stopped talkign to you- he has respected your wishes! make your mind up girl!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

nmt_oli

More info needed, how did your relationship end, was it a bad break up? did you remain friends? (i presume not by your atitude).

No we did not remain friends as I did not want to. How am I suspsoed to get over him if I remain in contact? he manipulates me by texting me saying he's been on dates with other people, etc making me upset. therefore zero contact is the best.

i could describe the relationship as abusive, which I'm still suffering from to this day.
I took a lot but I couldn't take any more, therefore I ended it.

nmt_oli

It may be that he still sees you as a friend, and at that tiime told you this as he trusts you and wanted someone to be there for him. If my ex rang me and said she had been drugged and was in hospital i owuld go see her ASAP, but were really good friends still.

He may weel see me as a friend but I see him as an enermy. someone whos constantly makes me unhappy and upset. i just dont want anything to do with him. i still love him but i dont want to love him so the best way to fall out of love is to not see or hear from them, at ;least until youve got over them.

he has attem[ted to give me an overdose before, thats just one of a billion things hes done to me so why shud i listen to him over his muck up at a club?
i warned him to watch him self there biut he never listened to me. not he faces the consequences.

nmt_oli

It is possible to be a friend with an ex.

You asked him to stop talkign to you, he has net replied, so has stopped talkign to you- he has respected your wishes! make your mind up girl!
.... ive been through this with him ebfore, he'll be texting me again in a few days time.