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Girl Just Gone Off Me. HELP

feeling really depresses right now. there this girl that has just gone off me in the last week.

before this we wud talk for ages on the phone and she would chat to me for hours on MSN.

now its like she doesnt want to know me. i dont know if she fancied me before. but i keep thinking what did i do. i cant stop thinking about her 24/7.

when i bring up the issue she just acts like nothing has happened and say everthing is OK.

also she has just moved school, but she talked to me ages after she moved. so what could it be???

Reply 1

~*Sarah R*~

shes probably found a boyfriend there and she doesnt want to hurt your feelings

Reply 2

Yep or something like that. Theres really not a lot you can do, keep nagging her and she'll probably pull away even quicker. No one likes a clingy guy. :smile:

Reply 3

username47781

How old is she?, the chances are her feelings change.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

she is 20 and im 17...she definately hasnt gt a bf as she has just moved school.

Reply 5

~*Sarah R*~

Anonymous

she is 20 and im 17...she definately hasnt gt a bf as she has just moved school.

shes realised that your too young for her

just stay friends with her and make it clear that you just want to be friends and she should be fine

how is she still in school at 20 though?

Reply 6

generalebriety

Heh, happened to me once, in a purely friendly way - no attraction going on. We used to talk quite a bit then suddenly she just stopped and decided she hated me for no reason but wouldn't admit it. I'm sorry to say it but a lot of girls are just like that.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

i ment school as in learning place.

Reply 8

~*Sarah R*~

Anonymous

i ment school as in learning place.

right ok... school to me means school

just forget her and find someone your own age

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

i dont think she has met someone else. and also we are just friends. but i think ther might be something else that is up with her so i cant really forget about her as i really care about her

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

sarah..can i just say..ur so cool...really

Reply 11

generalebriety

Anonymous

i dont think she has met someone else. and also we are just friends. but i think ther might be something else that is up with her so i cant really forget about her as i really care about her

Well, you can't push her into trusting you or telling you what's up with her, might be personal. The more you push her, the more distanced from you she may become. Be careful.

Reply 12

andy_cole2

yeah this happeneed to me minus the phone calls i was really gutted i would expect she has found someone or someone found her :angry:

anyway aside of that just wait and see. the thing is, my reasoning, she used to spend a lot of time talkign to you, that time has to be used doing something else, either with someone else or dealign wtih something else. logically she would realise that the time that she would have bombed away on you is being bombed away on something else. then she'l have to decide you or the somethign else.

maybe in the long term she'l come back :biggrin:

Reply 13

TomX

Arrested for peadophila, obviously.

Reply 14

Evil-Tuna

Maybe you did something to annoy her, or she has her own personal issues to sort out etc.

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

Im guessing she's found someone she likes more. One boy liked me for ages, and I liked him too, but before anything happened between us I started having feelings for someone else... and now I hardly even talk to the guy :frown: