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    Anon please.
    So, there is a guy in my new friendship group who I'm pretty close with and today he told me that he'd fallen for me.
    It wasn't a total surprise because we do a lot together and we text all the time. I really like him, like hanging out with him more than with pretty much every guy I met before. The only thing is, that I'm not really that attracted to him physically. He doesn't look bad at all, it's just his body, I guess because he's chubby :/ I know how that sounds, but please don't comment anything mean. Sometimes this just happens. I don't really know what to do now, since I really like him but I'm not that capable of imagining kissing or doing very intimate stuff with him. I really need some advice. Does that happen a lot? Does it change when I get to know him better, when we hang out more and I actually develop feelings for him? Because I actually don't care, it's just the intimate stuff. I would really like it to work out, but I don't want to destroy our awesome friendship by taking something to far that might just not fit.

    Please help me, if there is anyone that was in the same situation, I would really appreciate some experiences. But it doesn't matter who replies, I'm happy about all the help I can get

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    Why don't you just be honest with him? Tell him that you don't really see yourself in an intimate relationship with him. It's not rocket science.
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