Should I start going for Prostitutes instead of hoping for a quickie

I'm a 24 yo male 2nd yr Undergrad, a lot of people tell me that I'm handsome and I'm a good guy and all, few have ask me whether I have a girlfriend(my dad asks me that question a lot,lol), sadly that's far from the truth, now I think about it, it makes me question my attractiveness or my first impressions?.
In fact, I won't say that a relationship is all I want for my life in terms of sex, I'd prefer sleeping with as many girls as I possibly can before settling down, but despite being in uni for 4yrs and being more social and joining more social groups, there was no sign of progress.
I think was close in the club 4 times with girls that spent so much time kissing me on the dance-floor, but it never went further than that, because after sometime, while I was think about how or whether to get them from the dance floor to the bedroom, their attention diverted to something else.
Although I'm bisexual, and I find getting into online encounters with men easier, I still feel that it would be better if I did it more with women.
Now, I'm so sexually frustrated, that I'm starting to wonder if I'd have better results with a prostitute, I think if I start doing that, I'd be more confident in the sense that I wouldn't care about whether the next girl I meet would want me to sleep with her or not and if she obviously does, it would be a bonus.
What's your suggestion?, it would be helpful if anyone that has ever used a prostitute can give me one.

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Reply 1

bittr n swt

Personally I wouldn't use one but it's your choice.

I suggest having a wingman to help you pull when you're in clubs.

Reply 2

De Chirico

If you're not having any luck in clubs why not try dating websites or something.

Can you afford them?

You will regret it for the rest of your life if you choose to do a dirty thing like that! Also, don't forget they harbour diseases and worse of all, HIV. Do not put your life at risk - why not try dating websites?

Reply 5

kenni12

Original post by De Chirico

If you're not having any luck in clubs why not try dating websites or something.

Original post by Butterfly92xo

.. Do not put your life at risk - why not try dating websites?

You mean like OkCupid or Badoo, because I tried those and most of the girls I posted messages to couldn't be bothered to respond, I don't know if paid ones get better results

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Reply 6

kenni12

Original post by Peter rocks

Can you afford them?

How much are they? thousands?

Reply 7

Peter rocks

Original post by kenni12

How much are they? thousands?

Usually a few hundreds. In my opinion they cost too much in comparison to ordinary girls, it depends on what type of prostitute you want as well, are you looking for a high class or an ordinary prostitute? Most high class girls will charge about £800 for 2 hours or more, are you willing to pay that much for sex?

Reply 8

Anonymous Coward

Like Blazin' squad, you gotta Flip reverse it.
Become. A. Male. Escort.

Stay winning.

Reply 9

DaveSmith99

Unpopular opinion but there is nothing wrong with sleeping with hookers, compared to random drunk nightclub girls they'll be better looking and better in bed, while not neccessirly costing you much if anymore than trying to pull in clubs.

Reply 10

DaveSmith99

Original post by Peter rocks

There isn't really this two-tier type of grouping among prostitues, the going rate for non-drug addicted hookers is about £100 an hour, varying a little bit depending where you live.

Reply 11

kenni12

Original post by Peter rocks

If I was working in a stable job with an owned house and a car then yes,lol. But not now, I could try the ordinary.

Reply 12

DanB1991

Original post by Butterfly92xo

Any one night stand you find online is in my opinion is far more likely to have some kind of disease. Think about it, if a prossie catches something that will threaten their livihood, they'd most likely be more careful than the average girl.

Original post by Peter rocks

What the hell? It's closer to £100-200 for an hour or so.

Back at OP, I would recommend not going to see a prostitute, having sex with someone for money is not morally acceptable and you'd most likely feel feel ****. And stop hoping for a quickie while your at it! Sex is fun, but massively over hyped IMO.

If you really a desperate enough to see a prossie, have a **** right before you go and then decide if you really want to do it.

Reply 13

Jebedee

Original post by DanB1991

Back at OP, I would recommend not going to see a prostitute, having sex with someone for money is not morally acceptable and you'd most likely feel feel ****. And stop hoping for a quickie while your at it! Sex is fun, but massively over hyped IMO.

If you really a desperate enough to see a prossie, have a **** right before you go and then decide if you really want to do it.

With that logic buying drinks for a girl is also morally unacceptable. And why would he jerk off before he goes? It makes the whole thing completely pointless then.

Just let the poor guy bust his nut, jeez.

Reply 14

91_House

Yes but not in this country. Save up and go to east Asia or the Netherlands.

Reply 15

voiceofreason234

Original post by 91_House

Yes but not in this country. Save up and go to east Asia or the Netherlands.

Amen (although go to East Asia, not the Netherlands).

Take a trip to Pattaya in Thailand, OP. Loads of girls there. Asian hookers do it way better and it's pretty easy to get them to **** without a condom too so the sex feels a ton better. You can stay with the girl all night for very little in comparison to the West.

Don't worry about douchebags who say it's sad or pathetic because they're just douchebags.

Reply 16

41b

Learn game for free and get girls who actually like you for free.

A prostitute who liked me offered to sleep with me for £40 (she was a ten and apparently charges £200, yeah right) and I refused her.

It's not worth a single penny to orgasm into a condom into a girl who is only doing it for cash. You are paying her to like you. You are admitting to yourself that you are so disgusting that you can't get one of the world's innumerable slutty girls to sleep with you.

Is this true? I doubt it. You're a Man and you shouldn't have to pay a woman to pleasure HER.

Having said that, if you don't have any dignity, self respect and want to fund the lifestyle of a woman who is too lazy to make something of herself and has to resort to this, then go ahead. Just be aware that you are the one being exploited, considering sex is something you can get for free.

Reply 17

Peter rocks

And QUOTE=DanB1991;52772957]Any one night stand you find online is in my opinion is far more likely to have some kind of disease. Think about it, if a prossie catches something that will threaten their livihood, they'd most likely be more careful than the average girl.

What the hell? It's closer to £100-200 for an hour or so.

Back at OP, I would recommend not going to see a prostitute, having sex with someone for money is not morally acceptable and you'd most likely feel feel ****. And stop hoping for a quickie while your at it! Sex is fun, but massively over hyped IMO.

If you really a desperate enough to see a prossie, have a **** right before you go and then decide if you really want to do it.

And is 200 pounds worth sex?

Reply 18

Peter rocks

Well UOTE=kenni12;52772469]If I was working in a stable job with an owned house and a car then yes,lol. But not now, I could try the ordinary.

Well, are you fine with paying 200 pounds for sex? It will depend also on how often you will want it.