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I am 19, studying in my last year in college in hope to go uni. Pathetically, as college started this week, my anxiety wouldnt let me enter the lessons and hence i know i will miss the ucas deadline next week as my tutors dont really like me (cant blame them)
What i have notice is that my classmates seem to see me as a ****ing ******* ******* of a ****e's ass. I mean, even though i have not entered college this week at all, i saw a few whilst wandering around the college building and they just avoid me. In fact, they have been doing this since september.
Yes i admit im a **** and a cynical ******* who doesnt have friends on the course. I dont blame them, they are seen as God's Gift and i dont hate them for that. Everybody see introverts as ebola and this is fine.
My question relates back to ucas, What should i do when i miss the ucas deadline? or should i just quit college and go into a dead end apprenticeship?
What i have notice is that my classmates seem to see me as a ****ing ******* ******* of a ****e's ass. I mean, even though i have not entered college this week at all, i saw a few whilst wandering around the college building and they just avoid me. In fact, they have been doing this since september.
Yes i admit im a **** and a cynical ******* who doesnt have friends on the course. I dont blame them, they are seen as God's Gift and i dont hate them for that. Everybody see introverts as ebola and this is fine.
My question relates back to ucas, What should i do when i miss the ucas deadline? or should i just quit college and go into a dead end apprenticeship?
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Orrrr! You could claim extenuating circumstances and retake the year in sep 2015, or if you had bad grades maybe go into year 12 this year to enhance your grades from AS, you'll go into year 13 in sep 2015 and go there a year late with much better grades? ![Image]()
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Or not miss the deadline perhaps? Just write a personal statement, pick a few choices and do what you have to do. It's not a big deal anyways. Who knows how you're gonna feel in a couple of months when the universities would actually respond to your application... You can always decide not to attend uni after that.
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Orrrr! You could claim extenuating circumstances and retake the year in sep 2015, or if you had bad grades maybe go into year 12 this year to enhance your grades from AS, you'll go into year 13 in sep 2015 and go there a year late with much better grades?![Image]()
Orrrr! You could claim extenuating circumstances and retake the year in sep 2015, or if you had bad grades maybe go into year 12 this year to enhance your grades from AS, you'll go into year 13 in sep 2015 and go there a year late with much better grades?
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im curing my depression by drinking vodka, Gin and tonic, whiskey & wine and Wkd
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The ucas application can be done at home, so you don't actually have to be in the lesson to fill it in and send it. If you seriously can't go in you could do it at home.
If you miss the deadline, you still can go to uni this year. The January deadline is only for if you want your application to be considered equally to other applications. If you apply after the deadline your application will likely be seen last and so places might already be filled, but if they aren't you still could get a place.
Later on there's something called "UCAS Extra", where some universities open up empty spaces on the courses for people who didn't get in the first time round. While not all places do this and they might not have many places available, it is still an option you can take if entering late doesn't get you a place.
If all else fails, apply again next year. Or the year after. You're only 19, and you can go to uni at any age, so there isn't really any real reason that people have to go uni at this age, even though we're made to think that.
If you miss the deadline, you still can go to uni this year. The January deadline is only for if you want your application to be considered equally to other applications. If you apply after the deadline your application will likely be seen last and so places might already be filled, but if they aren't you still could get a place.
Later on there's something called "UCAS Extra", where some universities open up empty spaces on the courses for people who didn't get in the first time round. While not all places do this and they might not have many places available, it is still an option you can take if entering late doesn't get you a place.
If all else fails, apply again next year. Or the year after. You're only 19, and you can go to uni at any age, so there isn't really any real reason that people have to go uni at this age, even though we're made to think that.
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(Original post by JulianRothschild)
Mate.
None of this bull**** matters in the long run.
You need to address your anxiety issues. Fear removes itself from the equation once you accept this, you will within a two year time span, become what you want to become, no anxiety in social situations.
Read Dr Claire Week's books and apply that stuff, and stop messing around.
There are bigger issues than someone judging you, if someone says anything degrading just smack them. However first you must politely state that if you continue with this verbal abuse, I will beat the .... out of you.
Your inferiority is in your head, nobody is better or stronger than you.
I have met and seen people that thought they were 'cool' in school, they are all messed up a couple of years later and afraid.
Life's success isn't about popularity. They might be 'popular' in their current constructed social paradigm, but once they face the real world, they are little scared rats.
If I were you I would ignore it, focus on your success.
Self control in all matters of finance and enjoyment and huge amount of patience in life.
Mate.
None of this bull**** matters in the long run.
You need to address your anxiety issues. Fear removes itself from the equation once you accept this, you will within a two year time span, become what you want to become, no anxiety in social situations.
Read Dr Claire Week's books and apply that stuff, and stop messing around.
There are bigger issues than someone judging you, if someone says anything degrading just smack them. However first you must politely state that if you continue with this verbal abuse, I will beat the .... out of you.
Your inferiority is in your head, nobody is better or stronger than you.
I have met and seen people that thought they were 'cool' in school, they are all messed up a couple of years later and afraid.
Life's success isn't about popularity. They might be 'popular' in their current constructed social paradigm, but once they face the real world, they are little scared rats.
If I were you I would ignore it, focus on your success.
Self control in all matters of finance and enjoyment and huge amount of patience in life.
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(Original post by RX-94-Harley)
The ucas application can be done at home, so you don't actually have to be in the lesson to fill it in and send it. If you seriously can't go in you could do it at home.
If you miss the deadline, you still can go to uni this year. The January deadline is only for if you want your application to be considered equally to other applications. If you apply after your application will likely be seen last and so places might already be filled, but if they aren't you still could get a place.
Later on there's something called "UCAS Extra", where some universities open up empty spaces on the courses for people who didn't get in the first time round. While not all places do this and they might not have many places available, it is still an option you can take if entering late doen't get you a place.
If all else fails, apply again next year. Or the year after. You're only 19, and you can go to uni at any age, so there isn't really any real reason that peoplehave to go uni at this age, even though we're made to think that.
The ucas application can be done at home, so you don't actually have to be in the lesson to fill it in and send it. If you seriously can't go in you could do it at home.
If you miss the deadline, you still can go to uni this year. The January deadline is only for if you want your application to be considered equally to other applications. If you apply after your application will likely be seen last and so places might already be filled, but if they aren't you still could get a place.
Later on there's something called "UCAS Extra", where some universities open up empty spaces on the courses for people who didn't get in the first time round. While not all places do this and they might not have many places available, it is still an option you can take if entering late doen't get you a place.
If all else fails, apply again next year. Or the year after. You're only 19, and you can go to uni at any age, so there isn't really any real reason that peoplehave to go uni at this age, even though we're made to think that.
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i am a prick as well. I would be having fun if I wasn't stuck on a computer doing work.
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confidence is all about self belief and a little bit of arrogance. remember that you're just like everyone else, you might be a little bit worse or better (like me), but you won't be much worse.
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(Original post by whatevernd)
i am a prick as well. I would be having fun if I wasn't stuck on a computer doing work.
i am a prick as well. I would be having fun if I wasn't stuck on a computer doing work.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
but what about references? this is actually the main reason i will miss the deadline because the tutor has no faith in me.
but what about references? this is actually the main reason i will miss the deadline because the tutor has no faith in me.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
but what about references? this is actually the main reason i will miss the deadline because the tutor has no faith in me.
but what about references? this is actually the main reason i will miss the deadline because the tutor has no faith in me.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I bet your awesome and girls come after you...
I bet your awesome and girls come after you...
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I am 19, studying in my last year in college in hope to go uni. Pathetically, as college started this week, my anxiety wouldnt let me enter the lessons and hence i know i will miss the ucas deadline next week as my tutors dont really like me (cant blame them)
What i have notice is that my classmates seem to see me as a ****ing ******* ******* of a ****e's ass. I mean, even though i have not entered college this week at all, i saw a few whilst wandering around the college building and they just avoid me. In fact, they have been doing this since september.
Yes i admit im a **** and a cynical ******* who doesnt have friends on the course. I dont blame them, they are seen as God's Gift and i dont hate them for that. Everybody see introverts as ebola and this is fine.
My question relates back to ucas, What should i do when i miss the ucas deadline? or should i just quit college and go into a dead end apprenticeship?
I am 19, studying in my last year in college in hope to go uni. Pathetically, as college started this week, my anxiety wouldnt let me enter the lessons and hence i know i will miss the ucas deadline next week as my tutors dont really like me (cant blame them)
What i have notice is that my classmates seem to see me as a ****ing ******* ******* of a ****e's ass. I mean, even though i have not entered college this week at all, i saw a few whilst wandering around the college building and they just avoid me. In fact, they have been doing this since september.
Yes i admit im a **** and a cynical ******* who doesnt have friends on the course. I dont blame them, they are seen as God's Gift and i dont hate them for that. Everybody see introverts as ebola and this is fine.
My question relates back to ucas, What should i do when i miss the ucas deadline? or should i just quit college and go into a dead end apprenticeship?
you seem like your suffering from severe social anxiety disorder
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(Original post by rickfloss)
go see a doctor, it will not get better by itself
you seem like your suffering from severe social anxiety disorder
go see a doctor, it will not get better by itself
you seem like your suffering from severe social anxiety disorder
Please explain to me why you think my social anxiety is so severe. I just cant understand why people are ignoring me when next lesson i'll be sitting (forcibly, large class so impossible to sit alone) next to them
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(Original post by Anonymous)
And for the 1 millionth time NO
Please explain to me why you think my social anxiety is so severe. I just cant understand why people are ignoring me when next lesson i'll be sitting (forcibly, large class so impossible to sit alone) next to them
And for the 1 millionth time NO
Please explain to me why you think my social anxiety is so severe. I just cant understand why people are ignoring me when next lesson i'll be sitting (forcibly, large class so impossible to sit alone) next to them
You have classic signs of social anxiety, as someone who has gone through what you have gone through, i STRONGLY suggest you get help.
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