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    My boyfriend of 8 months ( i know its not long ) cheated on me. I really thought he loved me, and a part of me still loves him, and i hate myself for that because i know he doesn't love me back. I feel like i wasn't pretty enough, or smart enough, and thats why he looked for better, i feel like its my fault.

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    I am so sorry that your relationship has ended. It is horrible when someone you love cheats on you, it can make you feel really upset and start to doubt yourself. But, this is his issue and not your fault at all. It is not to do with being pretty or smart, unfortunately sometimes relationships just don't work out for so many reasons. It really hurts at the time but things will start to feel better.
    Please don't hate yourself or doubt who you are - I am sure you are awesome and you will meet other people who treat you with more respect and love. If he thinks it's ok to cheat on someone - is that really the kind of guy you want to be with anyway? It sounds like you are better off waiting to meet someone who won't treat you like that.

    Take some time to be nice to yourself, hang out with your friends, enjoy life and focus on the positives. I know it's easier said than done (believe me - i've been there!) but I promise, it will be ok,
    take care
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