Just wondered what people make of this and if they have any advice. I've been at Uni for about six months and am enjoying it. But I am really shy around girls, I'm fine talking to them and making friends. Its just the next step I have never kissed a girl or made a move or slept with a girl. Theirs been situations in a club where girls have tried to kiss me and I have backed off. Has anyone got any advice or anything. Plus how should you approach a girl at a club?
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- Thread Starter
- 09-01-2015 20:47
- 10-01-2015 13:03
If you're shy, clubs are not your thing. Besides, uni should be about your studies, not getting a hookup. (One way to overcome your shyness is to get into social situations whenever possible)
- 10-01-2015 13:06
Firstly don't put girls on a pedestal. Just from the threads on here you're not the only guy or girl that deals with these issues so likelihood is there's a few other people in the club feeling the same way.
Secondly don't feel bad about your lack of experience because there's plenty of time to do these things.
- 10-01-2015 13:21
next time in a club if a girls tries kissing you, go for it. you might like it and things could go from there.
you have to gain experience from somewhere
- 10-01-2015 13:27
I'm confused. Do you want to kiss random girls in a club? Because if it's random, you just have to dive in head first... god knows why you would want to though :P I wouldn't kiss anyone I'd just met on the dancefloor.