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Kissing

Okay i feel pathetic for posting this but i need advice on how to kiss. I have oly properly kissed one guy about 3 years ago and that wasnt pleasant at all. I guy i like has been trying to kiss me properly for a while and i want to but really dont know what to do with my tounge or lips and stuff. Urg. lol.

Reply 1

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

Trying to explain how to kiss is really a near impossible task, especially since everybody kisses differently. It's one of those things you need to feel out as you do it. You can give a load of don'ts, but not so many dos.

I would suggest not ramming your tongue in, but take the time to feel out the other person's kissing style, go slowly and basically just see how it goes.

Reply 2

ForumFreak

The only advice I can think of is not to do the cement mixer. Its really hard to describe how you kiss.

Reply 3

Azzle

don't be a washing machine. or like, a whatever it is that just stick things in and out. haah.

it'll come naturally when you do it. Perhaps when you last proper kissed a guy you werent old enough to really understand?? that makes no sense, but yea

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

When i kissed the lad, he was older and kind of took control and really just kind of pushed is tounge about with such a force that it didnt feel right.

Like what do i do, rub my tounge on his or...

Reply 5

ForumFreak

Sort of but do it gently dont go over the top right away as that may freak them out.

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

Gah, bad kissing girls irritate me a bit. Its excusable if you're drunk, but otherwise its just annoying.
Do NOT repeatedly jam your tongue in and out. Its repetitive, monotonous and not particularly pleasant. Instead take it fairly slowly (assuming it isn't a passionate pre-shag sort of a kiss) and vary what you do so it is actually interesting as well as intimate.

Reply 7

mypaperheart

I hate to have to do this - but Ron Stoppable's got a pretty good post on this.... :rolleyes:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showpost.php?p=2095396&postcount=47

Reply 8

foxiroxi

Don't use tounges at first just lips, it's kinda just go with the flow, be gentle and follow his lead is always a good way.

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

my girlfriend sometimes forces her tounge inside my mouth and gets really agressive. i dont really like that. its not that im not into tongue battles. but i guess its just her agressiveness which i dont like. i like to do it slowly, softly

Reply 10

edu

be smooth, light pressure on the lips, first little kisses, then working them up, dont ram your tongue, wait till both your mouths are open-ish and tease followed by gently rubbing it against his tongue.

next week advanced class: using your weight behind a kiss without making it uncomfortable, little nipping of the lower lip and the "jaw movements".

Reply 11

Sezkin

Just go with the flow. It's nice when you share a sparking tension, touch each other on the arms/ massage hands (it feels nice :wink:

), play with his hair then lean in for a soft kiss, he should follow and maybe it you want to change style of kissing, go for the flicker of tongues... it come naturally and you know what to do. :biggrin:

Ta da

Reply 12

Gingawings

just go with wot feels good. easier said than done, but dont worry bout it and dont get nervous. try having a couple of glasses of wine. wen u get into it, its great!