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    why do i have strong feelings for a girl i didnt even know existed 24 hours ago?

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    she gave you everything
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    Because you're human. Also, probably because you're desperate and lonely. I'm not judging too hard, trust me, I've been there.
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    love's old sweet song
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    (Original post by localfox1000)
    Because you're human. Also, probably because you're desperate and lonely. I'm not judging too hard, trust me, I've been there.
    nah.

    i've turned down quite a few girls and normally pull in clubs etc.

    like tonight for example i'm probably going out clubbing but it doesn't feel the same. :rolleyes:

    also, my ex gf i didnt really care about. it sounds stupid but i probably care more for this girl than i ever did for my ex
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    It's human nature.
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    (Original post by mals94)
    nah.

    i've turned down quite a few girls and normally pull in clubs etc.

    like tonight for example i'm probably going out clubbing but it doesn't feel the same. :rolleyes:

    also, my ex gf i didnt really care about. it sounds stupid but i probably care more for this girl than i ever did for my ex
    Oh.
    Well it's probably just the love bug. Ladies and gentleman, our man here is smitten!
    Will you get to see this girl again?
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    The force is strong with this boy Obiwan.
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    (Original post by localfox1000)
    Oh.
    Well it's probably just the love bug. Ladies and gentleman, our man here is smitten!
    Will you get to see this girl again?
    hope so. i have her number.

    i think even if she wouldnt want a relationship i'd still wanna be good friends with her
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    You have succumbed to the enthralling powers of lust,dear friend
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    Infatuation with idealised conception of said woman or potential of said woman and craving for validation from the opposite sex

    Usually it's teenage girls who fall victim to this i.e. first crush on the hot guy c. 14 y/o
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    Infatuation with idealised conception of said woman or potential of said woman and craving for validation from the opposite sex

    Usually it's teenage girls who fall victim to this i.e. first crush on the hot guy c. 14 y/o
    doesn't feel like that. i'm relaxed around her. plus i have quite a few female friends, so i dont really need any sort of 'validation from the opposite sex'
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    (Original post by mals94)
    doesn't feel like that. i'm relaxed around her. plus i have quite a few female friends, so i dont really need any sort of 'validation from the opposite sex'
    Therefore see points 1 and 2
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    Therefore see points 1 and 2
    maybe.
    im really not normally like that though
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    (Original post by mals94)
    maybe.
    im really not normally like that though
    hence infatuation with the ideal. Get to know her better, see if reality lives up to your imagination or you'll regret it for a while. I do suggest you lower your standards however, in reality her **** probably stinks like all the rest of us, and that's OK. At present you are putting her on a pedestal for reasons either to do with superficial lust (she's really hot) or she has otherwise introduced a new element to your life paradigm previously lacking in all your other social interactions esp. with women.

    (Basically she's a novelty and you have high hopes)
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    hence infatuation with the ideal. Get to know her better, see if reality lives up to your imagination or you'll regret it for a while. I do suggest you lower your standards however, in reality her **** probably stinks like all the rest of us, and that's OK. At present you are putting her on a pedestal for reasons either to do with superficial lust (she's really hot) or she has otherwise introduced a new element to your life paradigm previously lacking in all your other social interactions esp. with women.

    (Basically she's a novelty and you have high hopes)
    is it possible for her to feel the same?

    we hit it off immediately and spent 90% of the night together!
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    (Original post by mals94)
    is it possible for her to feel the same?

    we hit it off immediately and spent 90% of the night together!
    Perfectly possible mate. I didn't say she's stringing you along (although beware that is possible, she may be a natural flirt/vixen/femme fatale). Just that if you see her as a goddess she will never be able to please you, you will never be happy with her and so you will continue to search for the illusory Unicorn of women.

    You need to stick around long enough to know if this is just a passing infatuation or 'there's something there that wasn't there before', to quote Beauty and the Beast
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    Perfectly possible mate. I didn't say she's stringing you along (although beware that is possible, she may be a natural flirt/vixen/femme fatale). Just that if you see her as a goddess she will never be able to please you, you will never be happy with her and so you will continue to search for the illusory Unicorn of women.

    You need to stick around long enough to know if this is just a passing infatuation or 'there's something there that wasn't there before', to quote Beauty and the Beast
    yeah, i get what you mean.

    she directed a lot of attention towards myself before and during the night out. felt like more than just physical attraction as well.

    but then if i was to go in a relationship with her, and we broke up chances are we'd never see each other again!
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    (Original post by mals94)
    yeah, i get what you mean.

    she directed a lot of attention towards myself before and during the night out. felt like more than just physical attraction as well.

    but then if i was to go in a relationship with her, and we broke up chances are we'd never see each other again!
    mm. I know the feeling. 'Soul mate'. Well, trust me, pain is temporary, regret is eternal. Go and get 'em tiger
 
 
 
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