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    I rejected this guy who didn't exactly ask me out but he declared his feelings. I told him I didn't feel the same. Anyway he keeps trying to text me at every opportunity and even asked me to send a video of me singing a love song by Michael Jackson. I barely know this guy and he literally never spoke to me at school. Now he is sending snapchats just saying "hey" it's looking really desperate. Should I ignore them or confront him and tell him how I feel? Also do you think these texts and snapchats mean he hasn't accepted the rejection?

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    He thinks he is in with a chance with you. When you don't reply, he is assuming it is OK to keep sending messages. Us blokes are pretty thick at relationship stuff and can be persistent when we want something so sometimes we need telling more than once. So, object each time he contacts you.

    Start by sending him a message politely asking him to stop contacting you. Do it today, do not wait for another message.

    If he contacts you again, reply, insisting that you meant it and that he is to stop contacting you.

    It should then stop.

    But if he still contacts you again, reply, insisting that he stop contacting you and that you will now be complaining to the Police. Then follow the advice here. Some would argue you start following the advice earlier in the process but I'm a bloke so I know how thick and persistent some of us can be.

    If you're the kind of girl who ignores any encounter attempt from guys you don't like, expecting them to just give up, rather than being honest about not liking them, this should be a reason to tell him,
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