Rant re. men!

Basically I'm fed up with guys who give you all the right signals & then completely lose interest! A couple of weeks back I met this guy thru a friend & we got on really well, spent nearly 2 hours chatting. We communicated briefly on Facebook. Then I met him out last week, we spent the evening together, kissed etc & now he's completely lost interest, I heard nothing from him & saw him out last night & he didn't say anything. He went from interested to not interested for no reason!

Then there is this other guy who I had a bit of a thing with last year but basically I liked him more than he liked me. This term tho he started making it obvious he was interested. Then he told me he'd like us to give it a go, then I didnt hear from him for nearly a week, when he didn't come to our houseparty. I just don't understand why say all this stuff if you don't mean it. Its not like it was spur of the moment, we've been friends for over a year.

So basically I'm fed up with men who blow hot & cold & wanted a rant! Anyone else who does, feel free!

Reply 1

omlette

1

hmmm... for him there probably is a reason, however you would be unaware of it. Maybe he's just not that into you, and wanted to back out cos he was scared of giving you the wrong signals? Guys can be quite cowardly when it comes to that sort of thing. Also, if you're judging whether that guy liked you based on not hearing on him for a week and his not coming to your house party then maybe you need to chill off, he maybe meant what he said, and there may be a perfectly good reason as to why he didn't come or contact you.

But I do agree, guys can be total +w@+$ sometimes.

Reply 2

username47781

20

Many reasons, some guys are too shy, some just want one thing from you.

Reply 3

ForeverIsMyName

15

omlette

But I do agree, guys can be total +w@+$ sometimes.

Women are perfect.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Maybe you were too easy and some guys don't like easy girls.

Reply 5

MikeyB!

5

Girls are just as bad, if not worse than boys.

AND they do it for attention/on purpose....

The 2nd guy sounds a bit of a **** though

Reply 6

Segat1

16

All men are the same and women are always right. :rolleyes:

Reply 7

beach surf babe

14

that!

Reply 8

r0manticide17

3

He lost interest...the same can be said for us women too though. Works both ways

Reply 9

generalebriety

16

Anonymous

We communicated briefly on Facebook.

Oh, Christ.

Reply 10

Harv616

9

Ah women, your all innocent and all guys are tossers :rolleyes:

Girls are worse

Reply 11

Annie Hall

1

Not all guys are. I've had my fair share of horrid men, but some are the sweetest kindest nicest guys.

Kissing, if you don't mind my saying, is no sign of commitment. At the end of a date, it's nice to kissm someone, just be polite, and to avoid the 'oh god i'll have to reject her' thought. If this guy was looking for an easy way, that was the way to do it.

Never mind, there are more men out there.

Reply 12

generalebriety

16

harpy

Kissing, if you don't mind my saying, is no sign of commitment. At the end of a date, it's nice to kissm someone, just be polite, and to avoid the 'oh god i'll have to reject her' thought..

Better than a handshake.

Reply 13

L i b

19

Anonymous

Then there is this other guy who I had a bit of a thing with last year but basically I liked him more than he liked me. This term tho he started making it obvious he was interested. Then he told me he'd like us to give it a go, then I didnt hear from him for nearly a week, when he didn't come to our houseparty. I just don't understand why say all this stuff if you don't mean it. Its not like it was spur of the moment, we've been friends for over a year.

He wasn't getting any elsewhere, and while you're not exactly his idea of a fantastic girlfriend, you'd probably do for a while...

I hope that clarifies that one.

Reply 14

LipGloss

I'd just like to add my own rant to this thread: a few weeks ago I pulled a gorgeous-looking guy in a club while absolutely pissed. Next thing I knew he was in my room virtually pleading for sex. I refused because I knew I'd regret it later, and anyway the alcohol had completely killed off my libido. He asked me for my number (much to my surprise) and left. Next day he texted me to say he got home safe. I texted back, trying to initiate a text chat, but he ignored me. A week after our encounter, I stupidly enough texted him again. Ignored. I realised he was a waste of time and erased his number from my phone. Then out of the blue, he called me in the middle of the night a week later, insisting that we meet up that very night! I blew him off as I suspected he was drunk and just looking for a quick shag, but he made me promise I'd contact him so that we could meet up soon. I kept my promise, I texted him the very next day, but he ignored me. I'd like to erase his number from my phone, but I won't, just in case he calls again. I wanna know it's him so I don't pick up the phone. WHY do you do this, boys?

Reply 15

M j R

10

Segat1

All men are the same and women are always right. :rolleyes:

Yes this is true (in the eyes of all women... :wink:

in the eyes of men :confused:

)

On a side note, all men are not the same, fact. Women all nearly always right but sometime get it wrong which is rare...(note: not to be take seriously)

Reply 16

Chumbaniya

17

Segat1

All men are the same and women are always right. :rolleyes:

She speaks the truth.

Reply 17

Anonymous #3

LipGloss

I'd just like to add my own rant to this thread: a few weeks ago I pulled a gorgeous-looking guy in a club while absolutely pissed. Next thing I knew he was in my room virtually pleading for sex. I refused because I knew I'd regret it later, and anyway the alcohol had completely killed off my libido. He asked me for my number (much to my surprise) and left. Next day he texted me to say he got home safe. I texted back, trying to initiate a text chat, but he ignored me. A week after our encounter, I stupidly enough texted him again. Ignored. I realised he was a waste of time and erased his number from my phone. Then out of the blue, he called me in the middle of the night a week later, insisting that we meet up that very night! I blew him off as I suspected he was drunk and just looking for a quick shag, but he made me promise I'd contact him so that we could meet up soon. I kept my promise, I texted him the very next day, but he ignored me. I'd like to erase his number from my phone, but I won't, just in case he calls again. I wanna know it's him so I don't pick up the phone. WHY do you do this, boys?

Ur prolly hot and he's intimidated by you, don't worry about it.

Reply 18

generalebriety

16

LipGloss

WHY do you do this, boys?

Because we're all bastards and out to get you. Can I have your phone number?

Reply 19

Zafda

8

Anonymous

Basically I'm fed up with guys who give you all the right signals & then completely lose interest! A couple of weeks back I met this guy thru a friend & we got on really well, spent nearly 2 hours chatting. We communicated briefly on Facebook. Then I met him out last week, we spent the evening together, kissed etc & now he's completely lost interest, I heard nothing from him & saw him out last night & he didn't say anything. He went from interested to not interested for no reason!

Then there is this other guy who I had a bit of a thing with last year but basically I liked him more than he liked me. This term tho he started making it obvious he was interested. Then he told me he'd like us to give it a go, then I didnt hear from him for nearly a week, when he didn't come to our houseparty. I just don't understand why say all this stuff if you don't mean it. Its not like it was spur of the moment, we've been friends for over a year.

So basically I'm fed up with men who blow hot & cold & wanted a rant! Anyone else who does, feel free!

hmm, that sounds really unlucky.
a lot of guys never like to get serious, some just think 'yeah lets have a good time but no strings attached' - maybe thats why i refuse to get closer to guys now.
well i get really close and start reading into it, but i know they don't feel the same if we don't talk regularly etc..

Rant re. men!

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