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    Hey guys, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who is 1000 miles away in another country in Europe. We've been together for nearly a year and we only see each other every 6-8 weeks. As you can understand, it's very frustrating... Sexually. But she won't engage in any kind of sex talk. She doesn't have that much of a sex drive and mine is quite the opposite. It's incredibly frustrating because she doesn't try very hard at all with it and it's a pretty important part of relationships. I don't know what to do. Has anybody had this before and can anyone give any advice in this situation? Thank you
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    As an ice-breaker, I would suggest sending a nude and seeing how she reacts. Perhaps in a provocative pose (bending over and spreading the buttcheeks?) it worked for me...
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    (Original post by parsyyy)
    As an ice-breaker, I would suggest sending a nude and seeing how she reacts. Perhaps in a provocative pose (bending over and spreading the buttcheeks?) it worked for me...
    Charming... :lol:
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    (Original post by MrBean1994)
    Hey guys, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who is 1000 miles away in another country in Europe. We've been together for nearly a year and we only see each other every 6-8 weeks. As you can understand, it's very frustrating... Sexually. But she won't engage in any kind of sex talk. She doesn't have that much of a sex drive and mine is quite the opposite. It's incredibly frustrating because she doesn't try very hard at all with it and it's a pretty important part of relationships. I don't know what to do. Has anybody had this before and can anyone give any advice in this situation? Thank you
    Do you try to initiate it? As in sending her sexual texts etc. If she doesn't have much of a sex drive then she probably won't think to initiate it. If I were you I'd just let her know how difficult it is being so far away and how it would be a lot easier if you were to sext or maybe have...intimate skype sessions?
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    Perhaps you should send her a gif of a Dinosaur grinding on what seems like a stripper pole. Worked for me.
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    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    Do you try to initiate it? As in sending her sexual texts etc. If she doesn't have much of a sex drive then she probably won't think to initiate it. If I were you I'd just let her know how difficult it is being so far away and how it would be a lot easier if you were to sext or maybe have...intimate skype sessions?
    I was going to ask is that dinosaur scratching himself like Balloo does on Jungle Book then I read the next post. :/

    (Original post by So Instinct)
    Perhaps you should send her a gif of a Dinosaur grinding on what seems like a stripper pole. Worked for me.
    Where is that animated gif from? A show?
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    We talk about it but she's shy and is never in the mood. Never.
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    If it bothers you that much and she really is unable to engage in sexting, I don't see how the relationship would work in the long term and with such a distance. Her low sex drive is unlikely to change and if you start complaining about it, she'll be pressured to do it which might make her uncomfortable.
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    Just start sexting and maybe she'll respond? :dontknow:
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    Send her that Jason Derulo song.
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    I'm a girl also in a LDR. But we see each other only like twice a year. My boyfriend unfortunately is not into dirty talking. He prefers sending *photos* ><
    Anyway I sent him this because I thought it made a lot of sense to me. Might help.
    http://news.distractify.com/chloe-fe...band-material/

    You may also want to send her some literotica to warm her up to the idea first. Or it might be REALLY awkward. Trust me, the first time my boyfriend and I tried sexting, it was more LOL than anything else.
 
 
 
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