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    I really like this girl, and we message quite frequently, however sometimes she doesn't reply to the message on facebook and it is not marked as being 'seen', even though it says 'active now' or 'active x minutes ago', so I send her another one and it is usually fine, but now she hasn't replied after 4 messages, nor has she 'seen' any of them, even though it says 'active now' or 'active x minutes ago' I'm wondering whether she is ignoring the messages on purpose or what. 😒.
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    i think you know the answer to that son.
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    She's probably busy. Leave her alone.

    Some people read messages/texts but don't feel like replying straight away for whatever reason. I do it all the time.

    That "seen" or "last online" crap is ridiculous. I really hate that about WhatsApp
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    Shes probably busy.
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    If she has the fb and/or messenger app on her phone it often says people are active when they aren't if the app is running in the background of their phone. She may honestly not have seen the messages. Or she might be too busy to reply.
    Sending more messages is not the best move either way though really.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I really like this girl, and we message quite frequently, however sometimes she doesn't reply to the message on facebook and it is not marked as being 'seen', even though it says 'active now' or 'active x minutes ago', so I send her another one and it is usually fine, but now she hasn't replied after 4 messages, nor has she 'seen' any of them, even though it says 'active now' or 'active x minutes ago' I'm wondering whether she is ignoring the messages on purpose or what. ������.
    It could mean any of the following:

    - She's busy and will get back to you later.
    - Her internet is down, or she is out and doesn't have access to it.
    - She's ignoring you.
    - She knows it's you, and it fed up with you being desperate and sending her 4 messages in a row.
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    Have you ever actually met this girl? :beard:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Have you ever actually met this girl? :beard:
    I was asking myself that very question ...
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    Push notifications on mobiles will cause Facebook to display your contacts as: 'online now / last seen x minutes ago' even if they haven't opened the app. for some time. Also, like other people have said, not everyone feels the need to respond immediately. :grin:
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    1970?

    Op is probably dead by now
 
 
 
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