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    Hi I hope it's Ok for me to ask a similar question on here?

    I just found out my new boyfriend is a Virgin and i am not and I am really worried that he will fall in love with me. I just wanted to have fun but I didn't no he was a Virgin. I feel guilty for taking his virginity too incase it doesn't last forever.

    I think acting like you are both virgins could help I just think it's such a big responsibility and don't want to hurt his feels if I don't want to be with him forever.
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    (Original post by xjaynexbu)
    Hi I hope it's Ok for me to ask a similar question on here?

    I just found out my new boyfriend is a Virgin and i am not and I am really worried that he will fall in love with me. I just wanted to have fun but I didn't no he was a Virgin. I feel guilty for taking his virginity too incase it doesn't last forever.

    I think acting like you are both virgins could help I just think it's such a big responsibility and don't want to hurt his feels if I don't want to be with him forever.
    That would be awful. Better dump him.
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    (Original post by ChaoticButterfly)
    That would be awful. Better dump him.
    Don't you think this might be a bit drastic?
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    (Original post by xjaynexbu)
    Don't you think this might be a bit drastic?
    :sigh:
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    (Original post by ChaoticButterfly)
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    Thanks for the reply thou I think he needs to not be so intense with it and i need to not worry about the love too much maybe? What do you think? I don't want to break his heart ha
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    (Original post by xjaynexbu)
    Thanks for the reply thou I think he needs to not be so intense with it and i need to not worry about the love too much maybe? What do you think? I don't want to break his heart ha
    Has he actually professed his undying love and wish to marry you yet?
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    Saucy.

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    I doubt he will feel bad if you sleep with him... He's a guy isn't he?
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    how old is he?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Don't be so stereotypical we men have feelings too
    Sorry. So how did you feel when you lost yours? I am no longer a virgin yay! or OMG I love her does she love me?
    I agree men have feelings but I never heard one being emotional about his first time...maybe men shouldn't hide their feelings in order to not be stereotypicalized...
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    Make it clear in a nice way that you don't want a serious relationship. Make sure he's 100% sure and ready and be patient and reassuring if you both want to go ahead with it
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    (Original post by SiminaM)
    Sorry. So how did you feel when you lost yours? I am no longer a virgin yay! or OMG I love her does she love me?
    I agree men have feelings but I never heard one being emotional about his first time...maybe men shouldn't hide their feelings in order to not be stereotypicalized...
    Mine was to someone whom I met half hour before at a car event and ended up in a tent in the middle of a field. Classy.....yeh...nothings changed really. HA
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    It's not going to last anyway. Who cares. It's not a big deal.

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    (Original post by xjaynexbu)
    Don't you think this might be a bit drastic?
    Don't you think that jumping to the assumption that he'll fall in love with you purely because you'll be the first person he's ****ed is a bit drastic?
 
 
 
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