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    So about a month ago I started dating I guy I'd met on ok Cupid. Anyway we met for a first date and there was a real spark between us, he was keen to see me again and so was I. He had said previously he'd done a lot of dating and his longest relationship had only been a year. He assured me this was down to the girls he'd dated and not because he's a player. Anyway 2nd date went well, he was still pretty keen and would text me every evening asking how my day had been. By the 3rd date we had amazing sex and all seemed good until I got home and decided to check his dating profile. He'd logged in that day which was pretty gutting. His texts became less frequent by this point.


    Anyway yesterday we had a 4th date and I stayed the night at his. He seemed less keen around me than normal and I felt like I was pretty much rushed out the door in the morning and no text since. Checked the dating profile and he's been logging in very regularly. Finally sent a text to him last night to say he didn't seem too interested and was it best we didn't see each other again and sure enough... Message read but no reply!


    Never realised I'd feel quite so gutted and offended about being rejected, never experienced this and cant stop myself from running the night over in my head again and again trying to think what I did wrong?! I'm guessing he's met someone better on the site. Delete and move on?
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    Stopped reading after "ok Cupid". You should've been ready for rejection, the fact that your desperation led you to dates online shows that you haven't been
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    You gave up dat ass, he got what he wanted.
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    That sucks :/ You can look at it this way though - by taking matters into your own hands and seeing he was playing you, you took control and stopped the loser in his tracks. Find someone who wants you for your company, not your body, because you deserve it!
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    You met someone online.... kidna setting yourself up to be rejected on there.
 
 
 
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