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Reply 1

If you are an old man with a camera and a long-lens then I think this is weird. If not, then it might be weird.

Reply 2

It will not seem weird, only if you say:

My name a (insert your name) - I like you, woman. All day, i dream of you naked, no clothes, and its very wonderful. How much?

Reply 3

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If I randomly contacted a girl on myspace and asking her to chat on msn, given that I don't know her or her friends, though I regrularly see her coming from school, would this be strange?

Lol.... people do that to me on myspace and on here :laugh:

Just talk to her for a bit first... that would have pleased me :biggrin:

Reply 4

lol I am a young 18 year old gentleman and from what I know she is the same year as myself: year 13.

Reply 5

It's the internet. Nothing is weird on the internet.

I don't see anything wrong with contacting her. Just chat to her a bit and if you get on, meet her. Simple enough, really.

Reply 6

Chumbaniya
It's the internet. Nothing is weird on the internet.

I don't see anything wrong with contacting her. Just chat to her a bit and if you get on, meet her. Simple enough, really.

Splendid. i may well give it a go.

Reply 7

If you're not weird about it, no.

Seriously, having been told of some of the weird **** guys message my sister with i found out that my perception of weird was *way* off.

Reply 8

scutt
If you're not weird about it, no.

:ditto: It'll only be weird if you greet her with "Hey, I watch you every day at the bus stop, wanna go out for a drink?". As long as you don't do that, worst case scenario is that she feels uncomfortable talking to people she doesn't know, and she doesn't talk to you.

Reply 9

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If I randomly contacted a girl on myspace and asking her to chat on msn, given that I don't know her or her friends, though I regrularly see her coming from school, would this be strange?


you stupid idiot.

Go and speak to her when you see her coming from school. Say you take the same route or something and you noticed her. Or that you like her shoes and want to know where she got them from because you're buying your sister a present.

Man, your dumb...you see her all the time in person, and your asking about approaching her over the net??

Reply 10

Anonymous
you stupid idiot.

Go and speak to her when you see her coming from school. Say you take the same route or something and you noticed her. Or that you like her shoes and want to know where she got them from because you're buying your sister a present.

Man, your dumb...you see her all the time in person, and your asking about approaching her over the net??

Yeah, good luck with that one. :rolleyes:

Reply 11

doesnt matter what he says...my point was that its kind of common sense to speak to her in person. he sees her all the time!!? Did he not think of that or something? - I cant believe you've started a thread over this.

this is the equivalent to me starting a thread over what colour left sock I should wear with a black right sock.

Reply 12

Anonymous
doesnt matter what he says...my point was that its kind of common sense to speak to her in person. he sees her all the time!!? Did he not think of that or something? - I cant believe you've started a thread over this.

this is the equivalent to me starting a thread over what colour left sock I should wear with a black right sock.


Pink. Or light blue. :biggrin:

Reply 13

Anonymous
doesnt matter what he says...my point was that its kind of common sense to speak to her in person. he sees her all the time!!? Did he not think of that or something? - I cant believe you've started a thread over this.

this is the equivalent to me starting a thread over what colour left sock I should wear with a black right sock.

What? It's half term. Maybe he won't be seeing her in school for a week or so. :rolleyes: Or maybe, you know, he's shy. Or maybe it's just less frowned upon to approach people over the internet than it is to approach them randomly in person. I know I certainly don't mind people approaching me over the internet (in fact, it's quite a normal thing, even if I don't particularly love the idea of it), but if people started randomly walking up to me in the street and conversing I'd think they were a bit stupid.

Reply 14

maag101
Pink. Or light blue. :biggrin:

Or, you know, other colours entirely.

Reply 15

lol haha this is amusing. Yeah I see her regularly, but not like every day, and also she is usually with her friends so it would be kinda awkward to go and chat. Secondly, unless it was on a night out and I was a bit pissed, it would seem a bit stupid just to go up to some random person and start a conversation. I think its easier to build the initial relationship on the internet.

Reply 16

Ask her if she wants to cyber.

If she does, matrix with her and you're in there.

P.S: Don't forget to describe what you're wearing in detail.

Good luck.

Reply 17

no it wouldn't be weird, some total randomer who goes to the same uni as me but i've never seen before added me so the fact that you kind of know her has got to be a bonus