Who calls who first?

I am really starting to like this guy I met at uni, he called me a couple times and I called him. But I have this thing, that I don't like to call guys, cos it might make me seem desperate. So should I just wait for him to call everytime? Cos I called him the day before y'day but he didn't answer, but he did call me today except I was busy.
Also, he promised me he would txt me the other day but didn't so I'm thinking he's probably not interested! But then everyone is telling me that it seems he likes me :confused:

!! I have NO idea!

Help/advice appreciated! :smile:

Reply 1

dh00001

well as long as youre not calling every 10 minutes i dont think youre going to seem desperate.
plus he called you today so thats got to be a plus

Reply 2

generalebriety

Anonymous

So should I just wait for him to call everytime?

Yes, if:
(i) you want to come across as uninterested;
(ii) you want to come across as inconsiderate;
(iii) you want to come across as a neo-feminist bitch who makes the men do all the work;
(iv) several or all of the above.

Remember men will get bored calling if you're not reciprocating too. And he'll think he sounds desperate if he keeps calling and you don't bother.

Reply 3

DrNick2006

Yeah, he'll call again I'm sure. And if not, just give him a call- unless you want it to, it won't sound desperate.

So that's who calls whom first! (Sorry, sorry, I had to please my obsessive-compulsive brain, whilst not sounding obnoxious! Though I'm sure it did. Sorry. Sorry.)

Reply 4

lil one

Just call him, if he you don't and then he doesn't either, you'll both end up feeling :frown:

Reply 5

History_is...

You only live once! Things like this really wind me up - just do it! Whats the worst that could happen?? And you dont wan to risk missing out on something potentially really cool because u didnt wanna take a chance! Have fun xxx

Reply 6

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

History_is...

You only live once!

James Bond has taught me otherwise.

Reply 7

Leisure17

As has been said above:
Why not call him now and again. If you want to keep contact it is thing both have to work at. You will not come over as desperate. It is not a bad thing to show interest in a relationship. Basically it is not any different from other relationships. You will call other friends to chat or make a date. Do exactly the same with him.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

ok so I decided to call him today, but he was going home so he said he'll call me back, and he did, then he got home and said he will call me back again...and he did :biggrin:

So it's a good sign for now...still not sure if he likes me though :confused:

Reply 9

Nutter

You'll find out in good time I'm sure, but it sounds promising.

And yes, don't always leave it to the guy. Sexual equality's where the oomph is. :cool: