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    A guy was speaking with his friend who lives abroad over the phone, and he told her that he has family who lives there but in a different city. She asked him if he visited the country where she and his relative are living and he said no. She told him that he should visit his relative sometime.

    Can this suggestion be seen as a careful or indirect sign of interest from the female friend? Or just a normal talk?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    A guy was speaking with his friend who lives abroad over the phone, and he told her that he has family who lives there but in a different city. She asked him if he visited the country where she and his relative are living and he said no. She told him that he should visit his relative sometime.

    Can this suggestion be seen as a careful or indirect sign of interest from the female friend? Or just a normal talk?
    Most likely yes but best not to get hopes up, she may simply be interested in meeting him as a friend - in the first instance.

    There are plenty of hurdles to jump over before a relationship is on the cards.

    PS If you make an anonymous post there is no need to talk about it in the third-person! It just makes it harder for others to decipher what you are trying to say. Next time cut out the middle man!
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    Normal talk! She's a friend, and she suggested visiting her country, possibly with the intention of meeting up, but she didn't even say that.

    That doesn't mean she's not interested, and I don't mean to put him off (good luck etc ), but I don't think she just proposed to him.
 
 
 
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