There's a guy at uni who is on the same campus and in the same society as me, which we're both very active in. We run in the same social circles and go to the same socials/clubs and have lots of mutual friends. He's been around for over a year but I've barely spoken to him cause I've been too shy, but I did add him on Facebook a few months ago he comments on my statuses quite a bit and I've been returning the favour, and now when I see him now he looks at me quite a bit and I feel I should acknowledge him and say something but I get too nervous and just have no clue what to say.
So how can I talk to him in a social situation. eg a social/party/club? (we're always at the same places). It's a bit awkward because I've vaguely known him for over a year so I can't just approach him like I don't know him. Any advice?
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- 14-01-2015 19:05
- 14-01-2015 19:12
Just approach him and say "Hi" with a
Then the conversation will flow naturally.
- 14-01-2015 19:18
You need to love yourself to be in a position where you're like "If he does say no, it's his loss - i'm amazing".
If you don't love yourself, how can someone else love you.
Asides from that real advice, do go and say hi. Maybe have a preplan of what you're going to say in case silence happens, you know what to bring up, and have fun. He's the man - he should lead. Just don't come up to him like you have something to tell/offer him otherwise he will stand there letting you speak alot, waiting.
"I've seen you around alot and even on fb, and just wanted to come over and say hi" *smile* - you
"haha yeah hi" - him (most likely)
"(mention something, maybe from fb, maybe something to do with a club you're both in)" - you
- 14-01-2015 21:56
Great advice guys, thanks Any more input would be appreciated!
- 15-01-2015 20:55
- 15-01-2015 20:59
just talk to him. he won't bite. guys are more receptive to a female approaching us. all you really need to do is go over and say hi and i guarantee he'll entertain conversation