2 Sisters, 1 guy aghhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

Poll

What do you think?

I am being unreasonableMy sister is being unreasonabe and insensitiveWe should both forget about himShe should go out with him

*Tears and Butterflies*

2

Well let me just tell you the situation and you can give your opinion.

I liked this guy who i work with but he doesn't like me. (although he did imply that he did at one point) but then i got very drunk and made a fool of myself as you do, and he is not interested. I know that he likes my sister and when my sister found this out she said she would never get with him because of the situation it would cause, now however she has started meeting up with him.

To be perfectly honest i am over him but i told my sister that i thought she was harsh and that my mom (and some friends) said it was harsh and that a good sister wouldn't do that. Particularly just because she promised that she wouldn't.

Now she got really upset because i said this and she said she would tell the guy that it would never work. I told her not to and said i don't care if you two go out it, what is done is done and it was just the fact that you said that you never would and it was a lie. She said she was going to tell him though and i said don't but if you do DO NOT say anything about me because i don't care if you went out. but like the idiot she is she didn't listen and made it blatentley obvious that it was because of me, now he is ignoring me. ARGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH im sooooooooo annoyed. She just never listens to what i say and nows she is coming of with some crap like 'i never thought it would cause such a situation' when i told her it would and she knows it but the thing that annoys me the most is she had to go and mention me, and now i look like a weirdo trying to stop tham from getting together when really I DON'T CARE.

You see me and my sister are like the bestest friends ever and it is just annoying that this is happening, am i right or am i wrong?

Reply 1

Purple

18

You are right but it will all blow over soon enough.

Reply 2

A Y A Z

11

Both of you. Forget him.

Reply 3

~Sukhi

We should both forget about him

I voted this one. You're over him now, so what does it matter what he thinks about you?

Reply 4

frost105

14

Actually I think you do care. You say your over him but have made a big deal about them being together. If you were a good sister you'd have given her a break.

Reply 5

*Tears and Butterflies*

OP

2

No am am over him he is just a mate and that is why i am bothered what he thinks because i still wan't to get on with him. I don't want things to be all weird.

I told my sister not to say anything and that i didn't mind if they got together.

Reply 6

frost105

14

lollie

No am am over him he is just a mate and that is why i am bothered what he thinks because i still wan't to get on with him. I don't want things to be all weird.

I told my sister not to say anything and that i didn't mind if they got together.

If you had said that to me I would interpret that you still have feelings for him. You obviously wanted your sister to break up with him but not mention it was because of you so that you would look like the good guy and that there would still be a chance.
Just my opinion.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

My mum's sister really fancied my father. My father went out one evening and thought who shall i go out with, my mum had better legs. Nearly 50 years later my mum and dad are still together and my mum's sister quickly got over the fact. Sometimes things happen, if i was in your situation with my sister, i would be hurt first of all, but then at the end of the day i want the best for her

Reply 8

squigaletta

She is wrong for lying, but I wouldn't care bout the whole going out with him thing, you don't seem to care either which is cool. It is a shame that she seems to be acting like a bit of a dick over it, but I'm sure she only did it because she was feeling guilty about the fact that she lied in the 1st place. Moral; never lie :biggrin: