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Don't want to be clingy.

i've been with my boyfriend for just over a month now, he's my first boyfriend, so you might say i'm a little experienced. Anyway, my problem is that I keep asking myself why he wants to be with me, if he actuallly does. I don't see myself to have many friends, I'm not good looking and I have very little confidence. Insecurity is a big issue with me.

Take for example, this week. He went home thursday morning, and will be back late tonight. I saw him very briefly wednesday night, as I'd been feeling really depressed and he came to cheer me up. When he left I said I'd see him 'whenever', as I don't want to appear too clingy. I want to hold on to him.

Its now sunday night and I really want to see him tomorrow. The only thing is, I keep saying to myself "will he mind seeing me" etc. Is it normal to ask this?

Apologies if this seems trival or stuid. But I have no self esteem. And this kind of thing may have me in tears soon if I carry on thinking like this.

Reply 1

anjurdsg

you really need to sort out your life. i dont mean any sort of offense. i recommend you take some self-improvement courses/classes or attend seminars. you cant go on like that for too long.

Reply 2

Princess_Peach

You really need to chill girl. Be yourself. If he thinks that's 'clingy' then that's his problem.

All you can do is be yourself ^_^

Good luck xx

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

anjurdsg

you really need to sort out your life. i dont mean any sort of offense. i recommend you take some self-improvement courses/classes or attend seminars. you cant go on like that for too long.

I know

Its just the way I've always been, and what with never been in a relationship. I'm sutffed :frown:

Reply 4

DaveLawStuuuudent06

Id say with relationships i try to do what feels most right and makes me happy. From the things you said it doesnt sound like the clingy type i know of at all. Clingy i know is the kind of person who wont let their partner go out with other guys/girls unless they are with them and demands to see them every day etc. Just chill out, smile n go with the flow baby :biggrin: