wtf is going on?

Right, well about 10 days ago i met this boy. We both instantly liked each other and got on really well. We kissed and danced but then a few days later i found out he had a girlfriend. Then during the week he ended it with her. We were really flirty and on friday we told each other that we liked each other but since then he hasnt texted me! I no he went to a party on fri and i had to text him twice on sat before he texted me back. He was hungover and ill! Anyway i text him twice today and he hasnt text back. The second text asked why he was being offish! Whats going on? He tells me he likes me and tells my mates that he REALLY likes me and now nothing? Its making me really upset!

Sorry to rant but i have no one to talk to and needed to get it off my chest.

Reply 1

Fleece

15

Don't text him again.

By texting him twice before he replies, kinda gives off a needy vibe.

Reply 2

x-Ro-x

1

He couldve just lost his phone/run out of credit.. so dont freak out quite yet! I agree with ^, DONT text again, makes you sound desperate!

Reply 3

JakeThePeg

He got drunk at the party and got back with his ex girlfriend. You were only a one night stand that he now wishes to forget. These things happen.

Reply 4

foxiroxi

10

How long did you give him to reply to your text?

Reply 5

lilac!!

15

i agree no more texting, wait until he texts you, dont worry he probably likes you but texting over over kinda shows ur obsessed, if thats the right word

Reply 6

Claire_Elizabeth

1

Wait till he tects you, you dont wana seem to needy and clingy! If you keep texting him you might scare him off! Just dont rush into anything hes only just split up from his gf! Give it time!

Reply 7

filastini

14

Wait for him to reply. He'd do it automatically when he hasn't heard from you for a while, then he'll explain himself.

Reply 8

Gingawings

hes probably playing the firld and seeing other girls

Reply 9

username47781

20

I think he's just mucking you around, or the chances are he hasn't really ended it with his girlfriend.

Reply 10

anjurdsg

11

Fleece

Don't text him again.

By texting him twice before he replies, kinda gives off a needy vibe.

:dito:

Reply 11

anjurdsg

11

Gingawings

hes probably playing the firld and seeing other girls

:dito:

i'm not saying there's anthing wrong in doing so. but maybe he should just let you know about it.

maybe avoid him, and see how he reacts?

Reply 12

paperclip

18

i agree with the general oppinion, dont text him again, tis needy, you can bail yourself outta 2/3 and if your lucky 4 messages but 5 he'll think your obsessed and kinda bad news

he might be outta credit or just busy, leave it abit...

poetry, no offence but can ya try to leave caps lock off? if possible try to speak in proper english too (the occasional few words are cool but trying to decode a whole message does get annoying).

EDIT: haha i should read whole message before commenting, its not that the whole message is in slang but the caps made it seem that way...

Reply 13

anjurdsg

11

paperclip

i agree with the general oppinion, dont text him again, tis needy, you can bail yourself outta 2/3 and if your lucky 4 messages but 5 he'll think your obsessed and kinda bad news

he might be outta credit or just busy, leave it abit...

poetry, no offence but can ya try to leave caps lock off? if possible try to speak in proper english too (the occasional few words are cool but trying to decode a whole message does get annoying).

again, :dito:

lol

Reply 14

blot

7

I remember the days when dating took place without text messages. All text messages do is make me yearn for keyboard.

Reply 15

Pikeymikey22

Sometimes guys just do this. It'd be nice for us to text back instantly, but we often don't. We don't mean anything by it. We aren't trying to make you girls "take a hint" by doing so......

So don't over analyse this situation. Chill out and just see what happens.

Reply 16

Tinkers

1

Dont keep txting him, and going on at him, thats going to put him off you! He could be busy when you txt him, just back off a bit and let him be the one to contact you.

wtf is going on?

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