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    Hi,

    To provide a bit of context to the situation, I'm one of those girls who gets on better with lads, there's a good group of us (in which I am the only girl) and we hang out together after college/work, go to the football etc.. we're pretty close. I think that one of the lads might like me but I'm not sure...

    Some things that have happened that make me think that he might are -

    I was out with them, I was pretty drunk and a guy who recently started hanging around with us touched me up and tried to take advantage of me. My mate got all in his face and was like 'what the **** do you think you're doing' and had a proper go at him - so he's quite protective of me.

    Also, because I live on the other side of the city to most of them, when we go out it often makes more sense to stay at one of theirs after - it's not really practical for one to come back with me or whatever so it works better if I stay over. Usually I stop at his in his spare room but his brother has recently moved in so I've shared his bed and it's been fine. He hasn't tried to make a move on me as such but he's a lot more cuddly and I've woken up a few times with his arms around me.

    A few people have asked if there's anything going on between us so I don't know if people get the vibe that might be, but I just wondered whether anyone had an opinion on whether he might like me?

    Ask any questions if you need to thanks x
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    (Original post by catsis)
    You're one of the guys.
    So, you don't think he does? Because I'm one of them sort of thing?
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    I think he does.

    Why would he cuddle you otherwise?
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    Also, just to add a bit more info. I probably should have said this:

    I'm nearly 20 and he's 22, when I say he hasn't made a move as such I've been leaning on him while we watch tv and he's like pulled me onto his lap. Plus there was an incident where I woke up and we were basically spooning and he was like hard but I don't know if that was simply a case of morning wood or... :P
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    it's possible but not definite. it's not really enough to make a definite conclusion. he was possibly protective of you simply because you're a girl and like a younger sister to him. in terms of the cuddling, he hasn't made a move so it could have been reflex or just him wanting to spread his arms. basically, there's not enough to draw a conclusion
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    Maybe try kissing him, that will get you your answer.
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    (Original post by CalvinJ21)
    it's possible but not definite. it's not really enough to make a definite conclusion. he was possibly protective of you simply because you're a girl and like a younger sister to him. in terms of the cuddling, he hasn't made a move so it could have been reflex or just him wanting to spread his arms. basically, there's not enough to draw a conclusion
    Thanks is that taking into account the update too?
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    Thanks is that taking into account the update too?
    no it didn't. but reading the update.. yes it seems he's interested but probably doesn't know how to go about it.

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    Maybe try kissing him, that will get you your answer.
    I agree
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    The picture is not clear wither he likes you or not.
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    It sounds like he does, maybe make a small hint towards the topic and see how he acts


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