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Need Advice Please. Girls seem to get bored of me and I don't know why!!! watch

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    Hi Everyone,

    I recently started talking to this girl online and we've been getting on well. However after a few weeks, the converstation has started to fade off a little. This has happened before and it's beginning to worry me that there's something wrong with me. I try not come off as keen and keep asking questions to try and get to know girls, however soon or later they seem to get bored of me. It's not like I don't ask them on dates, but we both never seem to have to time and as we go to different Uni's it's difficult to meet up. This has happened to me several times before and with girls I've met in person, they just don't seem intrested. I have to conclude that there's something wrong with me, however it's getting more difficult to live with me, because I don't know how to change. I'm in this loop of rejections and it's not get from for me.

    What should I do. I really like this girl I'm talking to this we can only meet in a months time and I think she's already fed up with me! Help please!

    To be honest. If they are getting bored and don't fully appreciate you then they don't deserve you.
    You don't know how to change because you don't need to... wait for the person who will appreciate you for who you are and make an effort to spend time with you

    If you are both getting bored of each other already then maybe you just don't have chemistry together?

    Trust me, you'll find someone one day

    You say you keep asking questions about her, but do these girls ever ask questions about you? Do you talk about the things you enjoy, your hobbies? Funny stories? ect. If they're not interested to hear those things then I'm afraid they're not likely interested in you.

    Dude, give them some love. Women love it when you are asking questions about them- so ask questions about them. Don't care what they think.
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