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    So basically I'm a 17 year old guy who's into musical theatre, I can sing, dance, I have tonnes of confidence but no one seems to go for me, I don't know what it is, I've tried everything to get noticed but nothing seems to work can anyone tell me where I'm going wrong please because I'm totally lost here :/
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    Girls don't dig drama ****
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    You've given very little information to go on, are you very social? Do you meet very many people you'd consider dating? Do you talk to new people in those situations? Do you ever approach them or ask them out?
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    Nah I mean your stuff is feminine but you can still be alpha about it. I know a guy who works in a girls salon but you wouldn't screw with him, he's built like a house covered in tattoos. But the fact you posted this tells me you're a bit feminine so that's why.

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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    You've given very little information to go on, are you very social? Do you meet very many people you'd consider dating? Do you talk to new people in those situations? Do you ever approach them or ask them out?
    I'm really social, I go out often and meet loads of people, I consider dating all the time and yes I approach them :/
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    (Original post by LordBanter)
    Girls don't dig drama ****
    Bantaaaaaa
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    You're 17! Jesus Christ! Just focus on improving yourself man!

    You probably just reek of desperation.

    Focus on studying; doing things you love to do and let everything else fall into place. You'll be more attractive when you've got yourself together and a relationship is something you'd like rather than something you are DYING to have.

    Does not matter what your hobbies are, you could be interested in bloody coin collecting or collecting stuffed animals or wrestling, that's not really important right now. What's important is you just need to calm down right now.
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    (Original post by Drama_Geek)
    I'm really social, I go out often and meet loads of people, I consider dating all the time and yes I approach them :/
    Have you ever right out asked them out? Not danced around the idea but been very clear? If so how many times have you done so? Trying a couple of times then giving up is pointless, as you can't expect everyone to also be interested in you. It's about perseverance.
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    (Original post by LordBanter)
    Girls don't dig drama ****
    Rude


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    (Original post by Drama_Geek)
    So basically I'm a 17 year old guy who's into musical theatre, I can sing, dance, I have tonnes of confidence but no one seems to go for me, I don't know what it is, I've tried everything to get noticed but nothing seems to work can anyone tell me where I'm going wrong please because I'm totally lost here :/
    Maybe you have too much confidence that it's a put off? Either that, I don't mean to offend you maybe they think you're gay?
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    (Original post by _Charlotte15)
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    Bantaaaaaa
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    (Original post by LordBanter)
    Bite
    Funny


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    Dude ... You still got time for fun. You take it easy. No need to be hasty, and concerned at the same time. You still got life to live. Someday you will find this girl who will sing beside you. You just need to be better, that is all.
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    (Original post by Jebedee)
    Nah I mean your stuff is feminine but you can still be alpha about it. I know a guy who works in a girls salon but you wouldn't screw with him, he's built like a house covered in tattoos. But the fact you posted this tells me you're a bit feminine so that's why.

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    You really do not understand beta, alpha and theta personality types.
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    (Original post by Drama_Geek)
    So basically I'm a 17 year old guy who's into musical theatre, I can sing, dance, I have tonnes of confidence but no one seems to go for me, I don't know what it is, I've tried everything to get noticed but nothing seems to work can anyone tell me where I'm going wrong please because I'm totally lost here :/
    Based on that description you should have no trouble getting guys to go for you. Just keep putting yourself out there and you'll meet someone eventually.
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    Thespian / 10 :pierre:
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    (Original post by LordBanter)
    Girls don't dig drama ****
    Now that was a bit uncalled for.
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    Yeah same here

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    (Original post by LordBanter)
    Girls don't dig drama ****
    What the f%ck do you know? how dare you be so rude.
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    (Original post by Jebedee)
    Nah I mean your stuff is feminine but you can still be alpha about it. I know a guy who works in a girls salon but you wouldn't screw with him, he's built like a house covered in tattoos. But the fact you posted this tells me you're a bit feminine so that's why.

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    I agree with this but disagree with the way it was said.
 
 
 
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