Silent girls.

BTW out of intrest is she fit? I've never seen a quiet fit girl.

God Bless Anonymity.

By entering university I wanted to have a more serious life than before. I always used to "play" with girls, and generally never was a long-term relationship guy (except for some "special friendships"). I wanted to change things and become mature.

And I started slowly liking a girl from my class who appears to be the total opposite of me. I knew that something was growing between us... and for some reason I was interested in her.
But she is timid and I'm not used to timid girls. Really, they're so mysterious and I would like to know her more. She rarely speaks, except with her eyes...

But she accepted my invitation.

This night, among all stress and occupations, I managed to invite her to a rock concert in which I sang... after which I was alone with her.

And since she didn't speak... I spoke too much, carelessly. I became logorroic. Talking all the time, about everything, trying to be funny. Talking, talking, talking, even silliest things.
And I could never understand whether she was listening to me, whether she was thinking that I'm stupid or just shy to tell what she thinks.
But I couldn't stop talking. Because if I stopped, there was plain silence.
And I am clueless about what that silence means.

After a drink and a walk I took her to her home. She didn't even ask me to come in. Maybe she was so annoyed by my conversation (or rather, monologue)...

I am quite sure that I have no more chances with her. I will learn from what happened today.

But I would like to know your opinion on how I should behave in future with silent/shy girls... and what to say or ask when they are silent as stones...

I was in a really "speaky" mood. You know, after concerts, and meeting many people, receiving compliments and attention from everyone, etc. I am always a bit "over-self-enjoying".

Yeah... I wanted to ask more direct questions but thought that I would come through as too pushy. Even for stupid questions like "so how do you find the city?" "what did you do at night in your town?" she sometimes replied with a smile and silence. And I had no other choice than breaking the silence with another question...

God Bless Anonymity.

By entering university I wanted to have a more serious life than before. I always used to "play" with girls, and generally never was a long-term relationship guy (except for some "special friendships"). I wanted to change things and become mature.

And I started slowly liking a girl from my class who appears to be the total opposite of me. I knew that something was growing between us... and for some reason I was interested in her.
But she is timid and I'm not used to timid girls. Really, they're so mysterious and I would like to know her more. She rarely speaks, except with her eyes...

But she accepted my invitation.

This night, among all stress and occupations, I managed to invite her to a rock concert in which I sang... after which I was alone with her.

And since she didn't speak... I spoke too much, carelessly. I became logorroic. Talking all the time, about everything, trying to be funny. Talking, talking, talking, even silliest things.
And I could never understand whether she was listening to me, whether she was thinking that I'm stupid or just shy to tell what she thinks.
But I couldn't stop talking. Because if I stopped, there was plain silence.
And I am clueless about what that silence means.

After a drink and a walk I took her to her home. She didn't even ask me to come in. Maybe she was so annoyed by my conversation (or rather, monologue)...

I am quite sure that I have no more chances with her. I will learn from what happened today.

But I would like to know your opinion on how I should behave in future with silent/shy girls... and what to say or ask when they are silent as stones...

well i mean if she doesnt talk then what a boring relationship! a conversation needs more than one person!

She sorta answered to my questions only when she wanted. Leaving me with the impression that the remaining questions were impolite or politically incorrect.
I once started imitating her way of conversating and she laughed (eureka!).
But that's all.

Any other silent girls on this forum who would like to clarify what this might mean? Please

She's new to the city, so I don't think she has many friends apart from my "clique" at university.
She really studies most of the time... but the empathic/nonverbal communication between us was quite intense in the beginning.

Please note that we're not yet in a relationship, and it's still "work in progress" (though I don't know what to do since I'm used to girls who had at least a bit of initiative).