(Original post by iAmanze)
Confidence, Not insecure. Unpredictable (mysterious).
Someone that loves themselves is easier to love than someone who does not.
How old are you OP?
Add to this:
tend to be Ambitious but in an independent way e..g Rock-star (or just '**** you I'm going to do X career not be a corporate drone, see Tyler Durden)
problems with some not all bad boys:
-missfats touched above on it Vain
-Entitlement issues to sex/women (sort of reverse Nice Guy but with stereotypically more probability of being abusive)
-as such often short-sighted and impulsive, reckless; destructive of ambitions. Socially immature, irresponsible, not lazy per se but not active in a way which society will tolerate past a certain age
-Often polygamous, encourages fears of infidelity and a lot of pain
-Often abandon previous partners with pregnant children
none of this applies to you just to prove that being a 'bad boy' has its ups and downs. Judging by your posts it is likely you are not anywhere near Dark triad enough for the downs to be applicable