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    Anyone else hate being a violent man?
    If you are one how do you control your temper?
    How do you stop yourself from harming people.
    For me when im good im good but when im having a bad day i can honestly say im a danger to society.
    When im having a bad day I actually look for trouble and its like i get a thrill from harming people.(mostly men)
    Help a guy out.
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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    Anyone else hate being a violent man?
    If you are one how do you control your temper?
    How do you stop yourself from harming people.
    For me when im good im good but when im having a bad day i can honestly say im a danger to society.
    When im having a bad day I actually look for trouble and its like i get a thrill from harming people.(mostly men)
    Help a guy out.
    Count to 5 before doing anything on a bad day.

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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    Anyone else hate being a violent man?
    If you are one how do you control your temper?
    How do you stop yourself from harming people.
    For me when im good im good but when im having a bad day i can honestly say im a danger to society.
    When im having a bad day I actually look for trouble and its like i get a thrill from harming people.(mostly men)
    Help a guy out.
    i used to be the same, i joined boxing club, now whenever i'm angry/having a bad day and feel like punching someone i just take it out on the boxing bags
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    Mostly men but sometimes women? Is that implied? I have to say that you don't come across as the nicest of people, when you post over the months that I've observed. I wonder what made you that way.
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    (Original post by gen. AIDEED)
    i used to be the same, i joined boxing club, now whenever i'm angry/having a bad day and feel like punching someone i just take it out on the boxing bags
    funny thing my old man just recommended this to me.
    Do you ever get urges to get violent outside the ring?
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    (Original post by realunited)
    Count to 5 before doing anything on a bad day.

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    I wish it was that simple
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    Woo sa bro woo sa

    Failing that, perhaps you could see a therapist? They'll be able to offer you professional advice on the issue.

    I'd give you the option to PM me but I'm really no good at giving advice on these sorts of things and quite bad at responding to PMs after the first four or five.
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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    funny thing my old man just recommended this to me.
    Do you ever get urges to get violent outside the ring?
    Nope.
    My friend has aggression issues. He took up MMA. Not only is more disciplined ..he's pretty badass, in shape and is good at it. Definitely take up boxing or any martial arts :yes:

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    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    Mostly men but sometimes women? Is that implied? I have to say that you don't come across as the nicest of people, when you post over the months that I've observed. I wonder what made you that way.
    What do you mean is that implied?
    And i am a nice person for the most part i just got a bit of a temper
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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    funny thing my old man just recommended this to me.
    Do you ever get urges to get violent outside the ring?
    when i spar people in the ring i just get even more angry because i want to kill the guy im sparring, i tend to just stick to bags, i dont get urges out an about anymore, no one really pisses me off that much
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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    Anyone else hate being a violent man?
    If you are one how do you control your temper?
    How do you stop yourself from harming people.
    For me when im good im good but when im having a bad day i can honestly say im a danger to society.
    When im having a bad day I actually look for trouble and its like i get a thrill from harming people.(mostly men)
    Help a guy out.
    Taking up martial arts may give you a bit of discipline and may allow you to control your anger (and also release it in a controlled environment). The arts (acting, music, etc) are also good at helping people with anger issues). Also go and see your GP about the possibility of counselling or anger management.

    Be very careful. Don't be afraid to walk away. It doesn't make you less of a man. I hear too many stories of angry men full of testosterone outside clubs getting into fights (usually over a girl). Someone gets killed (when the perpetrator didn't intend to) and then the person who landed the blow is in prison wasting their life whilst someones mum cries over their son's grave.


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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    Anyone else hate being a violent man?
    If you are one how do you control your temper?
    How do you stop yourself from harming people.
    For me when im good im good but when im having a bad day i can honestly say im a danger to society.
    When im having a bad day I actually look for trouble and its like i get a thrill from harming people.(mostly men)
    Help a guy out.
    What sort of things do you do when you get violent?
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    (Original post by gen. AIDEED)
    when i spar people in the ring i just get even more angry because i want to kill the guy im sparring, i tend to just stick to bags, i dont get urges out an about anymore, no one really pisses me off that much
    thanks for the reply.
    yeah i might have to leave the sparring alone lol.
    Definitely gonna find myself a boxing gym hopefully it helps
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    (Original post by jenigma)
    What sort of things do you do when you get violent?
    start fights,mainly with fists sometimes with what ever i can get my hands on,i throw things sometimes as well
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    (Original post by matthewduncan)
    start fights,mainly with fists sometimes with what ever i can get my hands on,i throw things sometimes as well
    Just going to agree with others in that case and say boxing.
    What about calming activities such as meditation and yoga?
 
 
 
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