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    (okay development from last post, I like this girl now.)
    (not like other muslim girl threads, as this girl likes me)

    She is muslim, and she have never had a BF becuase of it. (respectable.)
    I am muslim too.
    I know she likes me, but she suppresses her feelings!!!!!

    - She does does not outright flirt. But she argues with me over everything. And our friends have seen this. They have both seen the high level of passion. (they even mention this, and she blushes)
    - When we revise as a group, my friends say she is constantly looking up at me. I have caught her once of twice.
    - she will wake me up in the morning early so we can spend the of the day together.
    - she was really jealous of this girl, I used to like.

    - if we ever got in the relationship I would never too her. I just want her companionship.

    So what can I do, I am starting to like her very much.
    This is killing me inside.
    (would also like some advice from muslims too please)
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    (Original post by apple1992)
    (okay development from last post, I like this girl now.)
    (not like other muslim girl threads, as this girl likes me)

    She is muslim, and she have never had a BF becuase of it. (respectable.)
    I am muslim too.
    I know she likes me, but she suppresses her feelings!!!!!

    - She does does not outright flirt. But she argues with me over everything. And our friends have seen this. They have both seen the high level of passion. (they even mention this, and she blushes)
    - When we revise as a group, my friends say she is constantly looking up at me. I have caught her once of twice.
    - she will wake me up in the morning early so we can spend the of the day together.
    - she was really jealous of this girl, I used to like.

    - if we ever got in the relationship I would never too her. I just want her companionship.

    So what can I do, I am starting to like her very much.
    This is killing me inside.
    (would also like some advice from muslims too please)
    It sounds like you already have her companionship?
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    It depends, how devout is she? I was in a similar situation with a not-so-devout muslim girl, the type that date guys outside of their religion. If she's at the headscarf level then it might be the long-winded, traditional supervised dating for you.
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    It's like Nike trainers, just do it
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    (Original post by Harvey Dent)
    It depends, how devout is she? I was in a similar situation with a not-so-devout muslim girl, the type that date guys outside of their religion. If she's at the headscarf level then it might be the long-winded, traditional supervised dating for you.
    She wear normal clothes in public, but she has told me she goes home and prays.
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    (Original post by yo radical one)
    It's like Nike trainers, just do it
    I agree, OP you should just Marry her lol
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    (Original post by gen. AIDEED)
    I agree, OP you should just Marry her lol
    Please be serious, we are both 19, and too young for an official marriage.
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    Ditch her.

    Do not even go near to zina

    One would rather be hit by an iron rod than touch a non-mahram woman. Do you not see the danger of what you are doing

    Audhubillah. May allah protect us all
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    Please be serious. Muslim GF is an oxymoron.
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    It's hard for us muslim lads.. can resonate with OP.
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    (Original post by Up quark)
    Ditch her.

    Do not even go near to zina

    One would rather be hit by an iron rod than touch a non-mahram woman. Do you not see the danger of what you are doing

    Audhubillah. May allah protect us all
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    (Original post by Groot)
    Please be serious. Muslim GF is an oxymoron.
    what can I do, we both like each other very much.
    But we cannot show it.
    Hence we argue all the time, and it drains me out everytime
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    (Original post by Up quark)
    Ditch her.

    Do not even go near to zina

    One would rather be hit by an iron rod than touch a non-mahram woman. Do you not see the danger of what you are doing

    Audhubillah. May allah protect us all
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    He could just Marry her if he likes her
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    (Original post by Abdul-Karim)
    It's hard for us muslim lads.. can resonate with OP.
    Cant we just have each other. Like no touching or kissing etc.
    I just want to spend time with her.
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    (Original post by Abdul-Karim)
    It's hard for us muslim lads.. can resonate with OP.
    not really all you need is an Imam and 4 witnesses
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    (Original post by apple1992)
    what can I do, we both like each other very much.
    But we cannot show it.
    Hence we argue all the time, and it drains me out everytime
    If you stuck by the laws of allah, you wouldnt be in this mess. You have to stop talking to her ok
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    He could just Marry her if he likes her
    Yes, he can. But op has already said that this is out of the question.

    Rasulullah (saw) did encourage people do get married early tho

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    (Original post by apple1992)
    Cant we just have each other. Like no touching or kissing etc.
    I just want to spend time with her.
    My friend is Muslim and with a Muslim girl for the time being, they have the intention of marrying in a few years and they do go out together but her Mahram is there, so to keep it halal. I could personally not do that.. but it's a thought. Either that or you go against religious beliefs. Really difficult predicament, especially when feelings are involved.

    I had to abstain from 2 girls I really liked in the past.. now I've just sort of given up with this whole romance thing. My life is now dedicated to TV series.
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    (Original post by Abdul-Karim)
    My friend is Muslim and with a Muslim girl for the time being, they have the intention of marrying in a few years and they do go out together but her Mahram is there, so to keep it halal. I could personally not do that.. but it's a thought. Either that or you go against religious beliefs. Really difficult predicament, especially when feelings are involved.

    I had to abstain from 2 girls I really liked in the past.. now I've just sort of given up with this whole romance thing. My life is now dedicated to TV series.
    thats just awkward m8
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    (Original post by gen. AIDEED)
    not really all you need is an Imam and 4 witnesses
    Convince the Wali, be able to provide etc.. etc..

    Mad easy right?
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    (Original post by apple1992)
    Cant we just have each other. Like no touching or kissing etc.
    I just want to spend time with her.
    Yes yes you want to spend time. Next it'll be a little trip round the park. Next it's a date in pizza hut. Next it's a little hig and peck on the cheek. And then zina. This is how shaitaan works... Little by little encourages you away from the path of allah

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    (Original post by Up quark)
    If you stuck by the laws of allah, you wouldnt be in this mess. You have to stop talking to her ok


    Yes, he can. But op has already said that this is out of the question.

    Rasulullah (saw) did encourage people do get married early tho

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    I understand, I am sure she felt the same way at first when we met.
    We didnt really talk to look at each other.

    But now things have changed. She said to me she has never really liked any one. (when we first met).
    And I am sure when she came here she did not expect to like someone like me.
    breaking contact will just strengthen the desire.
 
 
 
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