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    Hello everyone.

    I am currently an 18 year old male and have just started university. Whilst I am enjoying it so far, I have one lecturer who is always on my mind. I just really like his accent and his sense of humour. I can't stop staring at him in the lectures, it is really bad. I had an office appointment with him the other day and it was so akward near the end. I am also not gay, is this just a phase?
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    Sounds like a minor infatuation at the moment. With regard to you not identifying yourself as "gay", do you not think it possible to be simply curious? I believe everyone experiences sexuality curiosity at least once in their lives whether they'd like to admit it or not. You sound rather open-minded if anything; being able to identify and address an attraction to someone of the same sex, and that's all this may be. An innocent attraction. Just don't let this affect your studies or lecturer-student relationship. I wouldn't worry too much about the predicament anywho
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hello everyone.

    I am currently an 18 year old male and have just started university. Whilst I am enjoying it so far, I have one lecturer who is always on my mind. I just really like his accent and his sense of humour. I can't stop staring at him in the lectures, it is really bad. I had an office appointment with him the other day and it was so akward near the end. I am also not gay, is this just a phase?
    Hey, man, I'd just chill, I know a good few people that are slightly in awe of some of their staff in first year, particularly if they're attractive (even objectively) and engaging. Don't fret about it, it'll probably sort it's self out in the end.Some people are just awesome, they'll have a huge impact on you and your conception of everything you ever thought you knew, that's really startling the first time it happens.

    At the end of the day, wood is wood, no one cares where it comes from (although I'm not suggesting you want to sleep with the bloke, I'm speaking more generally). Even if you are attracted to him, it doesn't, by any stretch of the imagination make you a card-carrying homosexual. You have to...like, fill out a form and stuff...it's an administrative nightmare but we do like to keep things orderly
 
 
 
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