Does this guy have a problem with me?

I'm in my first term at uni and in my block there's us girls on the top floor, then guys on the second and first floors. We get on really well mostly. However, one of the guys is always a bit weird with me. He's really nice to everyone else, but with me he constantly takes the piss and insults me! He does it in a kind of jokey way but it really bugs me. He always messes up my hair as well. The other night, he thought I'd nicked his keys and started searching all over me for it, and someone said, "Haha, you're giving her a body search!" He shuddered and replied, "Erghh, I wouldn't want to body search HER..." Wtf? It seems that everytime I speak he fires back with some kind of sarcastic comment!
Also, he often comes up to our floor to knock on our doors. My door is the first one you come to on the floor, but he always walks right past it to the other end of the corridor to knock on someone else's door. I don't understand why he does this, I haven't done anything to him.
I even spoke to him about it and he just ruffled my hair and laughed it off. I don't understand why he singles me out like this and I'm quite upset. What should I do?

Reply 1

andy_cole2

14

maybe he likes you, its possible. or maybe he's a tosser if you've addressed it and he tried to brush it off just like that he obviously knows he's doing it. I sopse he could like you and feels uncomfortable aroudn you i don't know or maybe there's another reason lol

Edit: yay post count = 1234 :biggrin:

Reply 2

unfinished sympathy

15

maybe he's a tosser

;laugh; ;yes; ;laugh;

Reply 3

NickNack

1

andy_cole2

maybe he likes you, or maybe he's a tosser

or maybe its both.

Rule Number One: Never mess up a gals hair, no matter how well you know them

Reply 4

egg_soup

9

yeah he sounds like a right pillock. tell him where to **** off - and see what he says to that.

Reply 5

kam

10

Slap him and see what he says to that.

Reply 6

woodlebert

he likes you.

if he goes to your door first he thinks people will click on that he likes you as he goes to yours first.
the "eurgh body search HER" thing was so that people wouldnt think he finds you attractive...which he does

next?

Reply 7

egg_soup

9

woodlebert

he likes you.

if he goes to your door first he thinks people will click on that he likes you as he goes to yours first.
the "eurgh body search HER" thing was so that people wouldnt think he finds you attractive...which he does

next?

i have to agree. hes still an a-hole though

Reply 8

woodlebert

zoe knows her stuff

Reply 9

supernova2

11

hes probably just trying to be friendly but doesnt know how to do it properly. Sound like stuff a guy would say if he felt a little awkward and wanted to be funny to impress you or something.

Reply 10

woodlebert

supernova2

hes probably just trying to be friendly but doesnt know how to do it properly. Sound like stuff a guy would say if he felt a little awkward and wanted to be funny to impress you or something.

yeah. and if he isnt like that around other girls in your halls. it leads me to wonder why you get the "special" treatment

aka: he likes you

Reply 11

andy_cole2

14

nows the part where u sellophane over your hair and ask him to marry you. if he says no you slap him, if he says yes u laugh and spit in his face. and ruffle his hair :p:

Reply 12

NickNack

1

if your hairs long enough, hide a small mousetrap in it.

OR, get a wig and a "bald cap" (a thing that covers ur hair making you look bald). then next time he messes ur "hair", itll fall off. He'll probably sh*t himself then, and i doubtll do it again

Reply 13

anjurdsg

11

he likes you

end of story

i know how our guys' minds work

Reply 14

woodlebert

anjurdsg

he likes you

end of story

i know how our guys' minds work

concurring is great

Reply 15

Misogynist

18

He likes you alot. I can assure you that.

Reply 16

AntiLearner

13

My friend does this to this new girl at our college. He makes fun of her in an innocent-flirt way, but when she's not around he's all "I hate her, she's so irritating and such a cling-on" etc. Really don't understand why, and haven't questionned him about it either, as he's 2-faced with most people, probably even me!

Reply 17

Tag

8

guys are strange creatures who often lack social skills. lol.

I don't mind guys messing up my hair, it;s naturally curly so it;s usually a mess anyways lol.

Reply 18

=Keith=

3

I just loved nicknacks post.. lol

Reply 19

Homestarrunner

5

It's obvious he likes you. But he must be shy inside but hides it by acting the way he does. Try talking to him seriously and get to know him by breaking the ice. He might be really nice once he starts talking to you.

Does this guy have a problem with me?

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