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    Hey guys,

    Just to get this out of the way me and my girlfriend are both very jealous and stubborn people, so yesterday we saw 'Into The Woods' and she's been making out that I have a man crush on Chris Pine (of which I don't.) Although, when he began appearing and singing on screen twice she put her hands to her heart and had the expression of it she just saw/dated her long lost crush. I've never seen her like this before and I know it sounds silly but it got me thinking. I know she's dating me but there's always going to be attractive people she notices at uni and her celebrity crushes which she can always watch so it got me thinking how I can compete?

    It doesn't help that I get jealous and over think but I would like to be her ideal man, how can I learn to deal with her saying guys she see's are 'cute' 'hot' and 'adorable' cause she always gets annoyed when I show signs of being uncomfortable by it but I know she can't help it, even though she gets jealous when she thinks im looking at girls when I'm not.

    Thanks guys!
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    (Original post by Lucarious30)
    Hey guys,

    Just to get this out of the way me and my girlfriend are both very jealous and stubborn people, so yesterday we saw 'Into The Woods' and she's been making out that I have a man crush on Chris Pine (of which I don't.) Although, when he began appearing and singing on screen twice she put her hands to her heart and had the expression of it she just saw/dated her long lost crush. I've never seen her like this before and I know it sounds silly but it got me thinking. I know she's dating me but there's always going to be attractive people she notices at uni and her celebrity crushes which she can always watch so it got me thinking how I can compete?

    It doesn't help that I get jealous and over think but I would like to be her ideal man, how can I learn to deal with her saying guys she see's are 'cute' 'hot' and 'adorable' cause she always gets annoyed when I show signs of being uncomfortable by it but I know she can't help it, even though she gets jealous when she thinks im looking at girls when I'm not.

    Thanks guys!
    Any guy who watches porn can't be angry when their girlfriend has a celebrity crush, IMO.

    It's unreasonable for her to expect you to be happy with her being so obvious about it, though.
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    OK.. so my boyfriend knows I have a big crush on movie star Ryan Gosling... whenever a movie comes on TV or Netflix with him in it, he refuses to watch it.
    I actually think it's pretty funny. And it's the same way round with him and watching Angelina Jolie movies.
    You just have to be light hearted about it. Your girlfriend is with you because she chose you out of everyone!! She thinks that you are the most fun, attractive and best person to be with out of any of the other guys that she knows.
    There's always going to be other attractive people in the world... but none of them are you!! And it's you specifically that she wants. If she didn't want you then she wouldn't be getting jealous either and honestly, I bet she feels the EXACT same as you do. I doubt you have anything at all to worry about
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    (Original post by hollyfreckles)
    OK.. so my boyfriend knows I have a big crush on movie star Ryan Gosling... whenever a movie comes on TV or Netflix with him in it, he refuses to watch it.
    I actually think it's pretty funny. And it's the same way round with him and watching Angelina Jolie movies.
    You just have to be light hearted about it. Your girlfriend is with you because she chose you out of everyone!! She thinks that you are the most fun, attractive and best person to be with out of any of the other guys that she knows.
    There's always going to be other attractive people in the world... but none of them are you!! And it's you specifically that she wants. If she didn't want you then she wouldn't be getting jealous either and honestly, I bet she feels the EXACT same as you do. I doubt you have anything at all to worry about
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    That didn't actually sum it up and help a lot. Thanks! And glad we're not the only ones
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    Nothing to be jealous about especially as she will most likely never meet the said crush. I used to fancy Wentworth Miller and my ex didn't care however much I used to brag about him and his toned body
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    (Original post by Lucarious30)
    Hey guys,

    Just to get this out of the way me and my girlfriend are both very jealous and stubborn people, so yesterday we saw 'Into The Woods' and she's been making out that I have a man crush on Chris Pine (of which I don't.) Although, when he began appearing and singing on screen twice she put her hands to her heart and had the expression of it she just saw/dated her long lost crush. I've never seen her like this before and I know it sounds silly but it got me thinking. I know she's dating me but there's always going to be attractive people she notices at uni and her celebrity crushes which she can always watch so it got me thinking how I can compete?

    It doesn't help that I get jealous and over think but I would like to be her ideal man, how can I learn to deal with her saying guys she see's are 'cute' 'hot' and 'adorable' cause she always gets annoyed when I show signs of being uncomfortable by it but I know she can't help it, even though she gets jealous when she thinks im looking at girls when I'm not.

    Thanks guys!
    It's clear that you're her ideal man, because if you weren't she would have dump your ass and gone to hollywood to find Chris Pine (Which is impossible to do). I think the problem is that you feel second best/class to him. Also you don't even know what she feels about him properly,maybe it's just a quick passing and your thinking about it too much.

    Just be worried when she blurts out his name instead of yours, lol.
 
 
 
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