:( I hate this

Went out wit a guy 2 months ago for what umm 6/8 months i was 17 he was 15 k young but accted mature... we did go thru some rocky patches and blah... but when he started to say he loved me and it sorta scared me as I never personally thought that much of r relationship anyway I went for a big operation so spent like 1/2 weeks without seeing him and I had alot of time to think and I wasent sure bout bein wit him but i fort a week trial but i got treated like **** the day i got better frm my op and was able to eat properly he promised he wud cook me dinner wich he cudent cuz his mum was out so he asked 2 come round here nd i said i wud cook so i cooked and cooked and he never turned up :frown:

and he phoned an hour later sayin going to me mates for beers any other time wud of been fine?? and a few other things like dat happend so I told him I didden't feel the same anymore but I really had the best time ever and all that stuff...

This is where it goes rong he told me i cudent say hi to him in the corridor or ever be his friend and he told all his mates about when I bled whn I lost my virginity and all this other gross stuff wich made me feel auwful :frown:

and I had ago at his mate hu was raving it off cuz he wasent der but ive never actuLLy shouted at him cuz im soo scared.. then it got even worse he started saying I killed his baby and I was pregnant by takin a abortion pill i was NEVER pregnant we only had sex few times and this made me feel even more auwful and my neighbour said 2 me last night his mums been sayin i recked his life and we were meant to be and we had destined future but i had to ruin it. down there pub and its just > :frown:

and then today on way back from college his little brother in yr 9 was throwing big rocks at my head and :confused:

they were rly big and mud all over my coat and jus i dunno what to do cuz its scarying me and i made a fool of myself crying nd now when i told my mum and dad there doin all the whole im gunna go round there and have a go thing but i manged to stop umm it's jus what im trying to say reli got to much what do I do??

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Reply 1

username47781

Dump him and please don't use text talk.

Reply 2

Amberoo

No I allready have 2 monthss ago and all thiss is happening.. sorry its just late at night and I'm really upset.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

The kid (which is what he is) is a **** and you shouldnt even like him, but be careful as you have broken the law as he's under 16.. just some advice

Reply 4

egg_soup

you tell him to **** off out of your life! you can so much better than that low life and him hanging around you is just making you loath him even more. tell him, then tell someone else who can sort him out. you cant carry on being 'bullied' for dumping him!

Reply 5

Amberoo

**** o **** I thought it was diffrent? ****. umm and also it's like his family are acting as if we were engaged or something and at the moment i feel like hitting and punching him as the ignoring him thing aint reli working whats best way 2 go about it :frown:

Reply 6

Draculara

He clearly isn't that mature after all. He is a **** faced little brat who's pride was hurt when he was dumped. You are older, wiser and more attractive (i'm guessing :smile:

) your best bet is to arm yourself with a group of friends and cut him out of your life completely. Don't speak to him or talk about him at school. Forget the little **** and go and seduce a gorgeous guy to boost your self confidence. *Big Hug*

Reply 7

Amberoo

Thanks Lara *hugs back* and everyone else.. it's just so crappy I understand upsetness but at this level 2 months later is stupid, and now I'm a year 13 thats scared if I do walk a diffrent route than my friends normally like last night I'm gunna have a big huge rock throwen at me and just argh :frown:

but I'm going to do laras advice lol xxx

Reply 8

Hell Boy

Ummmmm... Why did you have sex, (A FEW TIMES :eek:

), as stated in your post!!! with a 15 year old.

Reply 9

Neverendingroses

Just keep your head down, avoid them all and it'll pass
Not helpful advice I know but its true

17 and 15 is way too big of an age gap anyway... even if it sounds like it isnt.
its also illegal to sleep with anyone under 16

Reply 10

Amberoo

Well I know that now but I didden't think it was like against the law :s-smilie:

I'm really really frightend now all you guys are saying it like that can I go to jail :s-smilie:

Reply 11

Draculara

uummm I don't think you should worry about that too much, just don't mention it to him! Talk to your parents about it if you are really worried (assuming they know you had sex...?).
Be strong - Girl Power!

Reply 12

FrisbeeFan

Don't worry about that, it's extraordinarily unlikely!

Reply 13

Amberoo

yeh they knew we had sex and his mum knew we had it :s-smilie:

and he was there telling me it was fine why the hell do I go for pshychos I'm not going to say anything to him but now im really worried :s-smilie:

Reply 14

tomHHHH

why is it embarissing that you bled the first time you had sex, most girls do

Reply 15

Misogynist

That story makes me sick

Reply 16

Draculara

Why

That story makes me sick

???

Reply 17

Misogynist

As in it's so bad, It makes me sick. Ie. This shouldnt happen to anyone. I feel sorry for you.. but just dont let it affect you personally.

Reply 18

Hell Boy

tomHHHH

why is it embarissing that you bled the first time you had sex, most girls do

Lmao. Perhaps, the kid thought he did something right for once. I can imagine the kid singing to himself - I popped her cherry :s-smilie:

Reply 19

FrisbeeFan

Amberoo

yeh they knew we had sex and his mum knew we had it :s-smilie:

and he was there telling me it was fine why the hell do I go for pshychos I'm not going to say anything to him but now im really worried :s-smilie:

You won't go to jail, I can guarantee it. You've got the most important bit over with - dumping the bastard - and now you just have to ride out the storm. Reassure yourself that you are a million times better than him and his stupid mates, and hold your head up high! Yes it must be horrible and embarrassing, but ultimately you have the moral highground and the whole issue will blow over eventually.