Hi, if anyone has advice on this problem, feel free to give it
I have a friend I have known for five years, at the start of our friendship we had a spur of the moment one off fling. We had both split with exes and both assumed it was each a moment of madness and there were no feelings attached.
He then moved on to a new girlfriend and I found someone too. It was hard because I always liked him, bit stepped back and took the part of best friend instead.
For three years his girlfriend continually cheated on him, and he always stayed with her, I kept my mouth shut and was just there for him every time. If he wanted to stay with her, I wouldnt stop him. One night we were both quite drunk and he kissed me, I stopped him before he went further, he wasn't a bad person he wasn't a cheat, he would regret it, but we talked and found out we had both hoped a relationship had started years ago.
It was a long time after that when he finally split with his girlfriend. And after a month or two, we ended up back in bed, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and neither was I (deep down I wanted one though).
He has now suddenly stopped speaking to me, I messaged him saying looks forget what happened let's stay friends, and no reply. He has just hurt me massively I have been there for him through all his **** and he could atleast answer me. He also owes me money. I am angry now too, how do I get a explanation and how do I get my money back??
What should I do?